^^ what she said Usually not. But she might not even realize that she's doing it. If she say, compares you to him but says that your'e better in that aspect, probly a good thing. If you come out worse, probably a bad thing.
Ouch you're fucked man. I mean, maybe after more time she'll be less ridiculous, but that just doesn't sound like a good situation to get into.
It could go both ways, depending on how the relationship ended. But keep in mind people are ex's for a reason
I pretty much agree with what the other girls have said... Also, if she says she's still in love with him but CAN'T love him... does she ever compare things that really have nothing to do with each-other? Does she say that things you do remind her of things that he did, but the two things seem to have nothing in common? Or that she's using the tiniest little relation between two different things to make them seem practically the same? Basically... if she still loves him, she might be trying to MAKE YOU like her ex, or at least convince herself that you're almost exactly like him even if you're not.
i'm all for honesty and i don't mind a potential mate telling me a bit about their history. however, being compared to someone else tends to make me uncomfortable, and makes me wonder if someone is truly over that ex or even ready to date other people. i'm too busy to invest time and effort into a relationship just to be someone's rebound. fortunately, i've only faced this sort of situation once, and didn't allow a relationship to develop. i was able to dodge the bullet of being involved with someone clearly on the rebound. however, some loves stay within people's hearts their whole lives, even when they're over the relationship itself, and the fond memories make them think of a happy time in their life without dwelling on it obsessively. if someone were saying that something positive about me reminded them of something positive about someone they were with many years ago (many people have a "first love" story they remember well and fondly), then i'd take it as a compliment. if the breakup is semi-fresh and i'm compared to an ex, i tend to run.
an ex is a ex for a reason. My hubby for instance (my family) a couple of times would comment on how he looked like my ex ... i would be so embarrassed, because an EX is an EX for a reason. theres good qualities that the relationship happend but you have to look at the flip side of it and notice that there was a ending and why? the guy could have been a good looking guy but a real idiot on in the inside catch my drift?
it may just be me.. but I don't feel that once you love someone you will always love them no matter what happens.. even if they hurt you so bad.. and this may not be bad.. you may just remind her of all the good things that happened with them.. so it is not always bad... and sometimes when we tell you something about our ex boyfriends it means that you are special enough to know what happened and what made everything go wrong or go right...so it is a toss up
It depends on if she broke up with him, or if he broke up with her. Chances are if its the latter, then she liked him and its a compliment. But obviously, you also have to make sure she's totally over him. But if she broke up with him, might not be such a good sign.
Ex talk is always tricky. Interpreting and analyzing it with your head and heart is necessary. When it isn't clear what they really mean when they talk about an ex, you deserve to know for your own piece of mind. There is no use in beating yourself up over it.
Since I don't do any actions until things are crystal clear, I have waited to found more about this girl before trying to seduce her. Found out she was a total bitch, she dated so many guys and always running for more, i guess she wanted me too but I won't be her dog, she's still trying to catch things up with me but I told her she was stupid to manipulate guys like that and she's still trying, oh well, lol.
So a woman's a bitch if she enjoys the company of men? Typical. She's smart for manipulating you because it seems she's still getting a rise since you're badmouthing her to a forum of strangers.
