Well... Me and my best mate have been the closest of friends ever since we met 5 years ago. About 6 months ago we started working at the same place, and she met a boy she really liked. Shes since got a boyfriend but she still has a lil thing for him u know? well anyways a few months ago he txt me suggesting meeting up and that, to begin with i said no and explained about my friend.. but i eventually gave in and went to see him. I have ended up rly attracted to him. Weve been seeing each other for about a month now, and no one knows a thing. It gives me such a buzz at work because we act as normal and no one knows anything. Me and him have never slept together, although i think it might happen this weekend. I do feel really guilty about my friend, but do you all believe that what she doesnt know cant hurt her? or am i just kidding myself?.. Give me all your honest thoughts please. x
I think the only thing you did wrong was keep the secret. Why keep a secret from a friend? You should have told her to start with. She has a boyfriend so it is not like she could be with him anyway. Just bring it out in the open like it just happened. Tell her he asked you out and you are accepting. If she is mad, she will get over it.
