Sex with one person

You should of asked me that a couple of weeks ago ?

 

Woody, we meet again! lol

 

I'll video it for you Snoopy

 

I'm greatful for the experiences I've had. At 31, I've had more partners than I care to list. My wife has only had me. Although she's open to experimenting and it's been enjoyable for her to learn all the different things we can do to please each other's bodies, I don't think I could handle it if the tables were different. I guess I could say I needed some of my past experiences to get it out of my system. I've been married for 4 years next month and have yet to say in all that time that "I wish I had done ____ before I tied myself to one woman." Don't get me wrong about the special bond from being with just one person. I'm just saying it wasn't for me.

 

heh, but, even if you had, couldn't you have just as easily done "____" with just the one woman? i mean, the way i see it, i look at other guys and i think sure, i could do something different with them....or i could do something different with my love...i guess i just don't see the point in multiple partners if one can be all of them at once?

 

OK, I've really only had a sexual relationship with one women. I guess I've had one or two awkward sexual gropefests with other women (before marriage) but as far as real enjoyable sexual encounters go, its been my wife only.
We've been together 7 years now, and its been great. I'm definatly still interested in other women. We've talked about inviting a third person (male or female) to bed with us, but so far have not done so. From what I read here, its a risky and complicated thing to do.
Maybe we'll live our lives to the end with only eachother, maybe we'll
"open" our marriage. Whatever happens, we'll do our best to remain completely honast with eachother. I want to grow old with Megan.
Great and adventurous sex is fun now, but hopefully not at the cost of our future together

 

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I have been pretty innocent for the most part in my life...which is ok with me. I am glad I haven't slept with every girl in sight, (no really.lol) because this way, the partners I DO share the moment with know that it means something to me. and not just another random bop on the noggin.

 

As I said before, my wife is experimental between the sheets but there are some things she's just not willing to do. Nor would I want her to do some of them. Some things I've done in my past was a result of being young, selfish and very inconsiderate of the woman's feelings or desires. I regret doing some of those things to the point that I could never hold a long-term serious relationship with the women that did them. It would be too awkward for me now that I'm older and have matured a lot.

 

Walla...

 

Snoopy....you added one more thing to the list of reasons as to why I love you so much !!!!!

 

i'd like to know what the difference is between only being wiht one person, and being with many...aren't we all the same in teh dark or underneath our clothes? ;p

 

most definately not. Haven't you ever heard someone say that everyone's different? Different body styles, differenst sexual attitudes, different sexual sounds to name just a few but everyone is different.

 

Sex with one person is great. Sex is also different with different people. Sex with more than one partner at once is something else!!!!!!!

 

Amen to that. Couldn't have said it better myself!

 

freedom is not easy, that is the reason we invent things like "he/she is my only/biggest love": it's just a mind fuck, because freedom of sex, love, desire is the most difficult (but also the most interesting) lesson i have. For me, being the jealous type, and actually, being quite satisfied with my man, once i've found the "right one" (HAHA, it's just the biggest lie in the universe, there is NO "right one", there are instead soul mates, some with whom you share body fluids with, some, not)
Bieng able NOT to fall inlove is my biggest cahllenge, and you know what? it works, instead, i've learned that this elitistic view "we against the rest of the word" is not actully coming from our soul, but is a Disease, a way from society to keep EMPRISONED and TRAPPED:it starts in our emotions, goes to our minds, habits, and to our whoel life and way of thinking. free yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Let's see... There's a little bit of Sartre and Simone de Beauvoir here, of course. Certainly some Freud, Marx, Nietzsche, perhaps even Max Stirner. Is it Freud, or Otto Gross!!!? Or Herbert Marcuse... Or even Wilhelm Reich. Good reading my friend!

 

hmm...I still don't see the appeal in free love. To me it seems like going thru an ice cream shop and "savouring" them all, just because you /could/. I wonder how said ice creams feel about that.

 

"just because you could" is not an accurate description. You savor different ice cream flavors because it makes your gastronomic experience RICHER. If I like both strawberry and mango flavored ice cream, why should I stick to strawberry?

 

Uh...well....no

 

Have never had sex with anyone other than my wife. Not interested in anyone other than my wife. Haven't made out with anyone other than my wife. She has done it only with me. Likely to stay that way. Both are happy about it.