Question, Sex to me is a symbol and expression of my passion for life and work. What I do not understand is that it seems women do not think this way. For example, I think sex is a natural expression and does not require some sort of preceeding relationship but it seems no girl thinks this way. My question is, what do you girls think of sex? Please immature guys, refrain from responding.
I think that more girls now a days enjoy sex just as much as men do. You could just about go anywhere and find a girl who is willing to "JUST HAVE SEX" with you and call it quits. Some girls are more difficult but they are for sure out there somewheres.
i personally, like to know someone before i sleep with them. i like to know whether i actually LIKE this person and am not just sexually attracted to them. i like to know this persons sexual history because you never know who was what disease nowadays. i couldn't care less about the love aspect but i won't go out and fuck a complete stranger. blech.
I can barely know someone and fuck them... Yeah. I just love sex. If I'm sexually attracted to you, I want to have sex with you.
Sex is a natural expression, but it's also important to me, I require trust before I'm willing to share my body with someone.
<< i like to know whether i actually LIKE this person and am not just sexually attracted to them. >> How long does that take? A few minutes of conversation, or more?
Sex is just sooooo good when your in love.... I mean, I have definitly had my share of casual no strings attached sex but man..... Ive recently found myself involved in a serious relationship and the sex is awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Im getting horny just thinking about it ;-)
Once upon a time I was all for casual sex. But it's very unfulfilling in the long run. Without the preceding relationship, it's not about passion or love, it's about sex. Which is great... But sex when you're in love, when you have that preceding relationship, is a bajillion times better. And, no matter how I looked at it, no matter how the guy seemed at first, I far too often came away from those casual encounters feeling used. So I stopped going for the casual encounters, finally found a good man, and am now in a long term, monogamous relationship... Now sex is a symbol and expression of our passion and our love for one another and for our lives together.
This is funny b/c I just recently had a girlfriend ask me how I can have sex with someone I don't love. I love sex. Its a great stress reliever. Its fun. And if you make me wet just looking at you, I will have sex with you without taking the pains to become friends/fall in love/whatever. Its that difference between fucking/sex/and making love. All three are great.
Maybe its because of my age...but I need more of a connection with the person than just sex.....AT LEAST a devout friendship !!!!!
As a guy, I can vouch for the no strings thing, to an extent. But yes, to me, if I really care for the woman, if there is a deeper connection between us than just physical, it is a hundred times more enjoyable. I can say from experience, that there are some instances out there where you are right on the edge of climax just thinking about that someone, you can actually feel them touching you, even if they are a thousand miles away. And if you really care for that person, then you will want to please them as best as you can. It won't be as self-centered.
You've apparently just met women who need a relationship before sex, but not all women think that way...as several members have pointed out. Many women want sex without the relationship, but they worry about being a slut for their desires. Another issue is the belief that if they sleep with a guy they don't really know or on the first date the guy will think they're easy. So, it isn't so much that women don't like or want sex without a relationship of some kind....society just tells us we're dirty and bad if we do.
You already have a thread with this exact question. Please be polite and don't hijack someone else's thread...
