ive been w/ my boyf 4 a year n a half, but i only c him on weekends n we have neva had a huge fight. i love him so much. but... i've got this friend that i've liked minorly on/off 4 the last year. anyways, i spend every day w/ him at school and last nite i slept with him. it's really opened up my eyes to a few things and i'm not sure where my priorities lie anymore. do u think it was wrong of me to do this in the first place. i honestly dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!
LOL, I absolutely hate when people type like this, but it is becoming more and more the norm. I just picture a retarded person typing this is all. Sorry, I've had some wine and this is cracking me up. Why is it so hard for kids to type out complete words these days. It is going to come back and bite them all in the ass when they get into the real world and have to type 20 page papers for college and type correspondance at work. Anyway, to answer your question, I think you are young and you are just unsure just like most people your age. I think that you need to be honest with yourself and with the other person who you have some sort of commitment to. Honestly, I do think it is wrong of you to sleep with anyone when you have a boyfriend, no matter how young you are or how much you are confused about your relationship. I just always believe it is best to be honest and let everyone know your intentions. But that isn't going to change what happened. Perhaps you should take some time away from both of them and reflect on yourself and what you really want out of life.
yeah but the more i thought about it, i think i've been lying to myself and trying to convince myself if i want to stay with him. i dont think i do anymore. i honestly think i need to end it with him and find someone my own age, not 11 years older but i dont know how to go about it
let's not mince words here - you cheated on the guy. let him go find someone who knows what they want and you should figure out what you want. makes sense.
Why would someone 27 want a 16 year old is beyond me. Yea, you cheated on him but he has some perve issues anyway. The only way to do it is just end it and don't take no for an answer. Good luck.
