hi i had sex for my 1st time this morning my girlfriend didnt enjoy it neither did i but i only had it up for a lil while and wasnt fully hard i cant seem to get it comletley up.but when i wank myself its so much easier any tips???? thanks guys if ya can.
How many times had you masturbated in the time leading up to your encounter? Because the only other solution I can come up with besides CJ's, is that you may have been overworked. How old are you??
Big mistake !!! You dont need "to get it up" She needs to get it up for you (in fact - for herself) Let her play with your cock Let her have fun with him (just like you like to play with her boobs) When your gf's gonna hold your cock in her hand and play with it I dont see ant other option but getting it up and hard
yeah ,I have the same problem. But mine stems from a medical problem and medicines for heart failure. Try a finger or plug in the ass. or maybe an ice cube.
How about something a little more helpful for the young man? First of all, despite what the media seems to be saying about just jumping into bed, it is a stressful time when you first become intimate. Your boy parts don't usually work as well under that kind of stress. Secondly, the more you think about it, the worse it will get. (I know... how can you NOT think about it? MUCH easier said than done! See below.) Crummy and Snoopy are right. Don't play with it for a couple of days before. Also, don't drink any alcohol or use any other chemicals. They make things worse. Then, when you get together, have a LOT of time, and don't rush. Explore each other, with no schedule. Then, show each other what you would do alone, and like justatiger says, let her play with your boy parts... not with a goal of being a pile-driver, just with the goal of enjoying each other. Be sure to pay a lot attention to her, but you also need to be selfish enough to enjoy yourself. Try taking turns... just her fun first, then just yours. Astroglide, and a large supply of condoms, unless you are REALLY SURE you want to make a baby, as your other posts suggest. Practice with the condoms alone, before she's around. Waste a whole box first. Don't freak out, and give it time. Weeks, even. Patience. It's worth all the work. (EDIT) You seem to have a dual personality on-line... in some posts you claim to be 21, yet in earlier posts you claimed to be 16. I think that 16 is probably the truth. Assuming that you're 16, let me just say that you are in NO WAY ready to be a parent. Just because you CAN, doesn't mean that you SHOULD. Perhaps your problems here are a blessing in disguise. Also, if you are 16, let me take back all of my earlier advice. I'll leave it up for those of legal age, but if you are 16, and especially if you are trying to make a baby with your GF at that age, you need to give it a break until you get a little wiser. That's why sex is an "adult" thing. There are responsibilities that go with it. Being a MAN does NOT mean putting it in. Being a man means using your best judgement to make your choices, and then living with the consequences, and trying not to cause unwanted consequences for others. Sorry to be a downer, but you're playing with fire if you're not ready. When you are ready, it is a beautiful thing. I wish you the greatest joy when you get there.
An ice cube ???????? As far as I know any coldness around that area will result in severe shrinkage Am I worng ? Or there's something new out there that nobody told me about...
