without sounding like a whore, i have a prob. My boyfriend isnt as horny as I am and I dont know what to do. We have good sex, just not as often as I would like... i thought all guys loved sex, apperantly i am being stereotypical. anyone have any suggestions on what to do about this?
if ya want him don't tell him.............just grab his dick you'll probly take him off guard but he won't complain!
i tried both well sorta... i couldnt get a buddy on the side cuz when i did i felt way too guilty and confessed i also tried grabbing him and that didnt work either, i have no idea why...
The best thing to do is be aggressive, but not in such a sudden way as grabbing his cock. Let me put it this way.... Make eye contact with him so he is looking at you. Then slowly come up to him, lick your lips, wrap your arms around his neck, and lay one hell of a kiss on him. Then nibble his ear a little and whisper "I'm so wet right now...I want to feel you inside me..." If that doen't get his attention and put him in the mood then there is something seriously wrong with him. I'm pitching a tent in my pants just thinking about you doing that and I don't even know you or have any idea what you look like. If a girl did that to me, and I was even slightly attracted to her, by the time I was done she'd be walking bow-legged. I'd fuck her so long and hard she'd forget her own name. Something else you might try doing is letting him know about future sex ahead of time. If you know that you're going to have some time later on in the day to have sex, just look into his eyes with a smouldering stare and tell him "I'm going to fuck you <insert time here>" Even if he is not in the mood when you tell him, he will be thinking about it the rest of the day and be damned near ravenous for you when the time comes. Another thing you can try doing is fixing yourself up to be more attractive. I'm mentioning this last because I suspect you're already doing that, in which case just keep it up. Kelticman
You don't. You aren't going to change a person who just isn't into sex. You're either born to love it, or you can take it or leave it, or you hate it. There is no switching from one to the other. And I wouldn't want the person who ever was ambivalent about sex. I want someone with passion who is crazy about making love mentally and physically. I want someone who loves to share herself with my while I share myself with her, totally, intimately and trustingly. Of course, the fine line you have to walk is the one between a guy who doesn't care about or for sex, and a guy who is so into it that he's a scumbag dog who will cheat on you because he values it over all else. But I would recommend against staying with a guy who doesn't give you the sex you feel you would like, because I have a strong feeling that you will always long for more and be disappointed. Is that any way to spend a long time, or maybe the rest of your life? What about him? What if he comes to feel that he either fails to please you, or tries to change and gives you more sex while not really wanting to have more sex? That could be as unfair to him as expecting you to adapt to an undersupply of sex would be to you. Good luck deciding. You could always go looking for a guy like me who relishes plenty of sex. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Some women can't take direct stimulation of the clit, that might be you. Other women can't have an orgasm but can feel pleasure. That probably isn't you, if you say masturbation doesn't work for you. You're probably S.O.L. there. Have you confronted him with this dilemma? You say you value him on an intellectual level so I'd assume you don't want to just up and leave him. It might be a long shot, but really, maybe he's gay. I mean, gay guys have been known to date girls to try to figure themselves out. It really doesn't make any sense to me that he wouldn't want to. This might be a bit personal, but does everything function properly? If he can't get it up, or if he's only capable of maintaining a semi-erect state that might be his problem. Any of these things could be the problem. I've honestly never known a man to be passive about sex with a woman, except my friend Eric, but he's not passive about sex with guys, so it evens itself out. I don't get a man who doesn't enjoy sex very often, it just baffles me. lol The guys who act as though practical abstainance makes them intellectual and "in-touch" with their feminine side really annoy me. I'm usually a pretty cool guy, not easily annoyed or angered, but these pony-tail wearing, psuedo-intellectual, starbucks latee drinking guys really annoy me. If I just described anyone, I'm sorry to offend you, but I would probably despise you. Anyway, if the guy genuinely just doesn't enjoy sex then you're pretty much screwed or, I guess more aptly, not screwed! Like Jefferey said (paraphrasing) a relationship can be caring and intellectual to a great degree, but at some point sex is necessary. A long-term relationship simply can't last without it. Humans are animals, it's the way we are.
everthing works, ive talked to him, and if he is gay, then that would be really freaky seeing his personality type... but never say never, even if he is, i'd be cool remaining friends, but i just want to know. how confounding...
What is he like, what is his personality like? Does he listen to every word you say and do you believe that he'd actually be able to paraphrase back anything you said (ofcourse you can't expect ver batum) from a conversation you'd had an hour earlier? If so, he's probably gay. Anyway, humor me and answer that first question.
while im sure most dont want to hear this.. but it works and its been done by woman through out time. Get a big dog. or get a horse. I'll leave it at that.
That's bad advice Omni! A girl having sex with a 15 inch horse cock each day is going to be jaded with human penis. You're ruining it for the men of this planet! Same with huge dildos. Those bastard manufacturers!
he is crazy. He dosent give a fuck what people think, he isnt exactly clean shaven, he does listen to me when i need him to, but he wouldnt be able to paraphrase everything back, even if his life depended on it. He is a big stoner too... about the horse and dog thing....NO!
LOL I can see your view there. ( shrugs ) can't beat them..join them..come on over to the WILD SIDE. !
