1. not sure if this has been done before 2. i never really knew were 2 put this *gets to the point* do you think you need love to be able to trust? or do you think you can love and have no trust for that parson? or do you think you can trust but have no love for the parson? do you think that all these can work? *trys to make this topic less serious* :H
Well, it depends what kind of love/trust this is. Like with my family, there's a lot of them that I love, but I really wouldn't trust them or confide in them at all... But with my girlfriend, I love and trust her very much, and I don't think one would work without the other. I have friends who I feel similarly about. In an example of someone who has betrayed you, its possible to have mixed emotions about them, like loving them, but not trusting them, cause of what they've done. And like someone you can confide in, and trust, but you aren't close enough to to love. But in terms of a relationship, I think the two go together, that trust and love are almost always something there needs to be both of.
I don’t think that you need trust to love… love is a thing of its own and unfortunately it doesn’t consider practical things like trust
i think that both work, in a wor situation you can trust somoene to do a good joba nd hate them asa person, or you can love someone and not believe that they are worth your trust
i agree, and there are many different kinds of love, i've been in very passionate loving relationships where i didn't trust the guy at all, but i still loved him... and i love my friends, but i've come to not trust them because they are very unreliable at times.... it really depends on the relationship in order to differ from love and trust
do you think you need love to be able to trust? yeah, but trust comes first and love can follow it the circumstances are right do you think you can love and have no trust for that person? no, trust comes before love do you think you can trust but have no love for the person? i suppose it's possible, but i'm pretty sure that i love everyone that i trust do you think that all these can work? i think love and trust are a lot alike, so i guess they could all work for different people.
do you think you need love to be able to trust? No, in my opinion trust is conquered through attitudes a person demonstrates and love does not have to be involved. do you think you can love and have no trust for that parson? No, I am extremely sensitive when trust is the factor, if i discover that a person (partner, friend, family etc..) is not beeing honest in any kind of way, the relationship will come to an end never having reached the point of beeing able to feel love for that person. do you think you can trust but have no love for the parson? Yes, at the moment I am envolved in a relationship with one of my Colleagues at work, I trust this person very much but i dont love her because we dont mach.
Forgotten-holocaust thank you for the mind inspiring topic, I would like to see more similar debates here in the hip forums, and less stupid threads about hair for example !! Once again thanks !
