Best blowjob ever?

anyone have any tips on how to give an amazing blowjob?

 

enjoy what youre doing thats the greatest advice i can give you. im a straight guy-and have never or plan on ever giving a blowjob- but the one time i recieved one i can give you that advice- enjoy what youre doing.

use your hands too.
licking the shaft is awesome.
kissing anywhere is awesome.

 

Yes,just enjoy what you're doing & let it show. Some of the best bj's I've received & seen in porn are where the girl sucks as if it's the last dick she'll suck for the rest of her life or as if she hasn't eaten in a week.

Lots of eye contact.
Lots of spit is very important to me. Nothing beats a wet,messy blowjob.
Throw in some moans as if it tastes like chocolate.
Every once in a while,look up at him & tell how good he tastes,you can't wait for him to cum,so on.

But keep in mind there's a fine line between enjoying it & going overboard with your actions. I had one girl who moaned so loud while going down that it was beyond ridiculous. I was not impressed. Her movements were so jerky & she acted like she was just waaay too into it. Not cool.

Hope that helps.

Acoustic,for only receiving one bj in your life,you sure know what you like already. You must have had a pro doing the job!!

 

PM me. I'm a goddess, I guarantee it.

 

Maybe I should have my wife PM you, if you can guarantee results.

 

i use to hate doing it, but now i found a tecnique that works just concentrate on the head and use the flat of my tongue rubbing up and down the underneath of the head.

always gets good result - hard describe properly tho

 

avoid dragging teeth at all costs!

 

But of course.

 

i give pretty wicked blowjobs. haha. but i agree, definately gotta enjoy what you';re doing..

 

I love cocksucking...and feel so terrible when he hits my back teeth...and about the vocal chick...there is a technique (I can't do it) where you get the cock down your throat and vibrate your vocal cords...you hum loudly or something...I haven't heard about it in awhile.

 

Ha Ha, okay, we can see somebody is happily married.

 

Damn.

 

Blue Ginger, I haven't heard anyone talking about giving a "hummer" in years. Bonus points all around! Hmm... trying to think if I ever had one... nope, I'm sure I'd remember.

 

And if things go on like this, he'll be even happier.

 

the best one is the next one.

 

And the one after that to.

 

hey! i had a pro do it for me and she even said i must have liked it cuz she was a pro...but when you say it it makes her seem like a ho! i dont like that!!

 

For Me it is actually not a blowjob. It is cock worship. The difference is that a blowjob is for making him cum. Cock worship may or may not end in orgasm, but orgasm is not the goal. The goal is to give him pleasure and to show him that you love his cock.

Cock worship has a different perspective than blowjobs, too, because a blowjob is for him. Cock worship is for YOU. Understand that men want to provide for us. So you get across to him that you really love this and you need it, you need to have as much as you want of it. He will be more motivated to control himself if he understands that he is giving you something by letting you enjoy his cock for as long as you want.

It's also good, especially with a younger guy, to let him have one orgasm first - have sex with him first - and let the cock worship be the reinforcement for his giving you sex the way you want it. If you save this for the second round, his need to come isn't as urgent so he'll be more relaxed.

You have to be able to gauge his reactions some, e.g., when his balls really start to tighten, switch the stroke you're using, change the rhythm - or his breathing changes, or his muscles stiffen - signs that you're getting him past the point of no return - you don't want to take him that far, you just keep him right on the edge.... basically you just keep bringing his arousal level up and easing it back, bringing it up and easing it back.

I like to lay him on his back with his legs open and one knee bent, so that I can lie between his legs with my arm under his bent leg and the inside of his thigh for my pillow if my neck gets tired and I want to put my head down.

That position is good because it's easy just to shift position slightly and you're on all fours, so you can be more active, or if you need to rest a little, you can, as I said rest your cheek on his inner thigh and he can stay in your mouth like that with you not moving, just sucking gently, or massaging the underside of his cock with your tongue, etc.

I start with my hands, touching him just with my fingertips - try to make him shiver. Next put a silky lube on your fingertips and use the lube and a little more pressure. I like flavored lubes because they help me salivate, and you want your mouth to be wet. Touch gets progressively firmer until you have his cock in your first and you can use your whole hand on him - then both hands, and keep changing the stroke. If the first couple of strokes are with your whole hand, let the third one be with his cock between your second and third fingers, and the fourth one be with your thumb on the underside and four fingers lightly on the top, or do a couple of strokes with your whole hand, firmly, stroking downward (not coming back up), so a couple of down strokes, and then three strokes from the base of the shaft coming up, back to the base and up, etc. until he is ROCK hard and starting to drip. I wait until I see that first drop at the tip of his cock before I use my mouth, and then it's the tip of my tongue to lick that first drop, and then my mouth very slowly, agonizingly slowly, take first the head, lick, make sure everything's wet, go down a little further, etc, until your nose is in his groin, and then come back up. Get everything wet - slippery is better.

It's not all about sucking his dick, either. You give his balls attention, and the insides of his thighs, and his ass, everything ...
But those things will increase his arousal level fast so you have to be careful with them.

You have to listen to him and know what the sounds he makes mean, that's another way - if you get the groan in agony of pleasure, you maybe can do whatever produced it one more time, but then no more because it will take him too high too fast, so you go to something else, and that will frustrate him, but something else good is coming, so after awhile he'll stop fighting you or rushing you and he'll just lie back. You want to put him in a state of bliss and keep him there.

He will be incoherent and he'll say all kinds of things to you, none of which are fair game to take seriously because he won't know what he's saying at the time, so if he says he loves you, or he proposes marriage, he just means he likes it. Don't expect him to remember what he's said to you after it's over, if you get my drift. Anything said in the heat of passion let go in one ear and out the other. He has to trust you that he can say whatever words come out of his mouth, or make whatever noise he's going to make, just being spontaneous. Encourage him to make noise, because that helps you know where you are with him, so ... a guy new to this will want to express himself but doesn't know what to say - any sound from him at all, reinforce it with um-hmmm, while his cock is in your mouth. That feels good to him. Encourage him to talk to you or make sounds by reinforcing.

New guys don't know what to do with their hands - I like my hair stroked and my scalp massaged, I really like his hands all in my hair. So if he's sort of floundering, take his hand and show him what to do and again reinforce it with pleasure sounds of your own. Teach him to stroke your cheek, caress your hair, talk to you, etc. That keeps the pleasure cycle going between the two of you so you get reinforcement back. The level of praise you get by doing this well is worth the effort, and the level of gratitude.

Deep throat - you have to control your breathing, because you won't be able to breathe, he'll be blocking your air way. Feel with your finger or if you can curl your tongue back in your mouth, where your palate ends and your soft palate begins, on the roof of your mouth. What you want is to be able to use that ridge between the hard palette and the soft to massage the head of his cock with. Use pressure with your tongue on the underside, press him up against the roof of your mouth, inhale, and slide your mouth down his cock until you can feel him pressing against your soft palate. You can bounce him off that ridge. Or you can just keep him in that deep and suck him without moving your head. Lots of things you can do. Your throat will be sore the next day but it only lasts a day or two.

If you do want to make him cum, (you asked me so I'll tell you), a finger inserted and focus on the head with a steady rhythm will usually finish him.

And after you've had him at that arousal level for a couple of hours, once you do make him cum, don't expect anything else from him the rest of the day, because he won't be able to get up. Just slide out of bed so he can have the whole bed to himself, and quietly shut the door behind you and let him sleep because he won't be able to get up for a few hours.

Ok, that - plus - learn your positions and don't be concerned about what you look like in any given one. If he didn't like the way you looked, he wouldn't be with you, so trust him and forget about what you look like, just do what he wants you to do, or do what feels good to you and don't think, just feel.

Attitude. I'm known for great attitude about being there.

 

Okay, EMTPrincess, I can only assume you got your Master's Degree in Fellatio, right? I can't disagree with much of what you said, though personally I'd much rather have the woman crawl up and put her head on my shoulder so I can hold her after. Skin contact is wonderful, even if you're so completely wiped you fall asleep in moments.

 

I do okay. And if you want my head on your shoulder afterwards, then thats where it shall be. But know, after being in a state of such arousal for so long, your going to fall asleep pretty quick. And I'm gonna need a snack!