I learnt by practising on a dildo and since I hung out in SF a lot and had gay male friends I asked them to help me..they taught me a lot, I think (at least that's what my lovers say). For me the trick is angling my throat correctly but when some guy with a big cock starts ramming away it hurts...I'm not sure how to keep from hurting and choking when a man does that. Any hints?
lie on a bed or a table or something with just your head hanging off, not even your neck, just your head. it angles your mouth to make a straight path towards and down your throat. sword swallowers learn to recreate this positioning without lying down, i'm sure that just takes a bit of practice though.
I find it works best if I take it in on the same angle, you know It dowesnt work if I go against the angle of his cock. The best I've found fo it is 69 possy or if he's sitting down. in other words, eyes and nose fointing toqwards the feet, not the face
Well I could do that but I don't want to...I'd rather learn a way in which I could allow him to do what he likes...it isn't a problem currently but you never know when it will happen again...I don't like spoiling the fun..I mean if I avoided everything uncomfortable I'd never take a shit!
They say that practice makes perfect, but the truth is that it depends upon the individual. Some guys prefer that you use a little teeth, some want you to completely gum it. It takes a time or two with a guy to feel him out (so to speak). I like to try new tricks, mixed in with what has already been perfected. I have never had any complaints thus far. Mostly compliments along the lines of, "Damn, where did you learn that?" or, "Wow, you really know what you are doing!"
Tristan Taorminos Expert guide to Oral Sex I believe part one is Fellatio and part two is Cunnilingus. I haven't actually seen them but the other videos she has done are all fantastic. Peace Out, Rev J
I have never had any trouble deepthroating. I used to be bulimic, and as screwed up as it sounds, it taught me how to control my gag reflex. I know how to relax my throat, once you've been doing it for awhile, you really get the hang of it.
I watch how my boy friend reacted to my hand and them did same with mouth and tongue then just played around till got it right. most important thing to remember work tongue around corona and they scream with delight.
Well I practiced alot on my guy friend and a dildo, after about a week he could push as deep and fast as he wanted without chokeing me, but he liked choking me, he would hold it down my throat until I did! Turns out alot of guys like to choke the person sucking them, feeling of power! I have never met a guy yet that doesn't like a cocksuckers throat! So I just let him slide down my throat and relax as he puts it there, andost guys uslly cum like crazy!
I'll have to do a bit more practice - we'll have a session tomorrow with our boyfriend........... Any tips for relaxing your throat? Simon
I was interested in the effects of gagging, as it is a reflex that can alter other parts the nervous system. Tis also true with tickling.... Not gagging my wife, I can do that myself , I was interested in gagging myself. but away to get something hands free would have to be another human being.. Im just not into oral sex with a male (least not yet) .. Anyhoo we do have plenty toys ,, actually my wife sells sex toys at parties and stuff....< cool least she interested in sex and talking about it with other women.. I thought of how to get the dildo overhead of myself while my wife goes down on me..I tied it to a string and hung it over the bed with a coat hanger type thing.. The weight of the batteries allow it to drop to my gag reflex, but its light enough I can choke it out.. let me tell you it was pretty fucking intense , my wife did some anal play, with me too. I swear on all I love best fucking sex ever. Was like being with 2males and a female without all the stings attached.. < Charlie Babbit made a joke..:love: & I get my panties at kmart..
well I just relax and let it in, I love the feel of the cock in my throat, I sometimes choke but most guys like that, but I just try to relax and take it down, let him have your throat, (god I love to deepthroat)
