Do they ever pay you back what they owe ya? Does everthing just really become a gift even if that is not what was agreed upon? Is this just the rambles of a foolish dork? I can answere #3, lol
My first wife and I ended our relationship about $20,000 in the whole. A few months later I am dept free. Don't know how I lucked out on this, but I did. Her rich daddy took care of her, and I went on with my life.
Mine just likes to live outside her means. She wants things, takes mine and nver gives em back, lol Oh well could be worse.
my brother's wife is like that. it's fucked up. my mother took nothing from her marriage except child support.
YNB, rarely do you get paid back. HippyLand, very unusual you were lucky. fitzy, it can set you back for years & yes they can take what you don't have.
Mine does and so do I with her. Over the years since our break up we have both bailed one another out numerous times. We have even crashed at one anothers homes when either one of us was down and out too. We love each other-we just aren't IN LOVE with one another anymore.
i dont ask my ex husband for anything, i already know he will say no so i dont even waste my time nor energy. I would pay him back though. I find it very odd that when I talk to my ex and his girlfriend isnt around he is as sweet as can be, we actually carry on a conversation and sometimes share a good laugh. But man, when his gf is around it is a whole different story. He is such a dick.
OMG! Words cannot describe the joy I had reading this post. My father cheated on my mom and left her for a woman who has always tried to cause problems for me, my brother and my mom. She has been doing shit to us all since about 1989. When my mom would talk to my dad on the phone about picking me and my brother up for the weekend, if his girlfriend was present, he'd be rude and cut my mom short. If the girlfriend was not there, he'd be back to his old nice self again. Jealous women make it hard for the rest of us. Thank goodness someone else knows what I'm talking about.
Ditto, even though it's coming from a new ex wife. My ex and I have been friends for over 6 years. We see no reason to make it ugly.
That's the trick with divorce.... I've seen it from both his and her side on many occasions... what's funny is that both sides think that the other screwed them somehow... oh well, these sorts of things rarely end on a friendly note.
i dont see the purpose of these gf/bfs getting all butthurt when people are talking to their ex's. I just dont get it. He cheated on me with her off and on for five years, like i would even want his sorry ass back. I guess maybe they feel that "once a cheater, always a cheater". and that they may cheat on them, like they cheated on their former spouses.
i get along awesome with dave's ex wive. she's a peach. i saw her yesterday on the back of her husband, jimmy's, harley. jimmy kicks ass, too. she and dave were kids when they married and split up, but there were some funky hard feelings for a while. but i refuse to be hauled into other people's conflicts. so it just sorta dissipated.
