Okay I have had to make every decision for god knows how long and today I just dont want to decide so I asked the roomy to decide what she wanted for dinner. She asked me what did I want. I told her I am kinda tired of making decisions all the time and that it is her turn. What does she do.... cry! I mean what the hell is that all about??
my sister sometimes gets very pissed off at me when i tell her its her decision for dinner. i don't get it, theres really no reason to get that emotional over picking dinner.
well, hormones may be outta whack. i gotta say that sometimes you just can't please your man at all. i'll pick out something for dinner and dave will decide that's not what he wanted. it'll keep happening until ultimately i let him decide what he wants to eat, and i still complained at because i left it to him to decide and he's sick of deciding. i just get irritated, mock him and tell him exactly what i think of his inability to be pleased. my version of crying.
OMG you guys are sooooooooooooo insensitive.........(j/k) Maybe she thinks if she chooses dinner then thats what she will have to eat for the rest of her life. Maybe she thinks if she does it once then it will become her job. Maybe you should ask her. Oh wait on second thought DONT ask her maybe its PMS!!! Karma. x
Well I hope it is not a hormone issue. She is just a roomate, now hormones at all. I dont complain about food, just pre known that me and green food dont fly well. Its not just the food, its really anything, I have to decide it all.
I'm the only person on the entire planet who doesn't like ice cream either.:& Crisps are always good, (chips to most of the world), lots and lots of crisps!! Karma. x
Ive been thinking about this again. Wouldn't it be easier just to tell her what's for dinner? Do you wish you'd just not even bothered trying to make her decide that one simple thing? Maybe thats her ploy. Maybe she just likes that you do it all the time. I'm shit at everyday decisions too. What do you think I should have for dinner tonight? I can narrow these things down to pizza or chinese but I can never quite make the final choice without outside help. Karma. x
I've got a boy that won't make decisions... I don't like making them, either, but sooner or later, you gotta do it! I've yet to find a way to get him to, though. Maybe I never will. This isn't exactly one of those, "if you love me, you'll leave it alone and accept me" things. Communicate and compromise, dammit!
my stepson is like that. he never, ever ever commits to any decision. he's a shrugging mumbler. makes me crazy. it's gotten to where i won't cook him anything he doesn't come right out and ask for it, because if i decide and cook something, odds are good he doesn't want it.
yeah i'm guessing hormones teamed with not wanting to make final decisions in general (since she usually doesn't) don't worry about it yank... you could always force her to make a decision for her own dinner by going out and eating out alone
