to be friends with benifits... let me explain : i know the girl for about 1 year now, we are not very close friends, but there is definitivly attirances, i know she doesnt want anything serious right now, so do i. so i was wondering what was an example of a good approch on the subject?
Have you had conversations of a sexual nature yet? You might start with that. See how she feels, how open she is. If you've gone that far, perhaps watch a dirty movie together to see how she reacts, maybe even propose masturbating together. I guess it all depends on just how good of a friend she is. If you are sure you can make the offer without offending her, then you can talk to her about it. You might even go so far as to say something like "I wish I could find a friend to have sex with." Now, she is of course gonna know you're talking about her, but if she's even in the least bit classy she'll react one of two ways. Either she'll say "I hope you find on some day" in which case you can mentally add "... but it won't be with me." Or she'll react more positively, in which case you're good to go. I had a friend with benefits, her name was Hannah. We were both horny a lot and just enjoyed each others company in bed, but not for a love type relationship. Plump Lvr
