OK people this is stupid but I just need to know. Answers from girls would be appreciated! tell me is it possible to find out if your lover is unfaithful during sex? I mean from the quality of sex. Let me explain! My gf was away for four weeks, two weeks ago i paid her a surprise visit, the sex was not the same, i mean after two weeks of sex, she should be quiet tight. Last week she returned, we had sex abt two days ago...last night during sex even though we had sex two days ago, she was tighter than when we had sex after two weeks... how is this possible? am i being delusional? I think she is cheating...what you say?
I don't know why your penis was thinner while you were visiting your girlfiend. BTW, how is she treating you? Is she still doing the special things to make you happy? Does she appreciate the things you do to make her feel special? I don't know what the two of you have together, but is a stray bit of semen enough to wash your love away?
lol dude, i just need to know if its possible from sex to tell... theres nothing different abt the way she treats me.
Could be muscle control, mood, state of arousal, or any of a bunch of other factors that have nothing to do with cheating. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.
how tight she is has absolutely nothing to do with how often or how recently she's had intercourse. If you can't trust her, you need to break up. It doesn't matter if she's cheating or not, if you can't trust her you shouldn't be together.
I agree how tight she is at any given moment is no indication of when she last had sex. It sounds like you have some trust issues to work through though.
Word. And even if tightness worked like that, whos to say she didnt masturbate with a dildo or something? Paranoid, I sure as fuck wouldnt wanna be with someone who didnt trust me like that.
If she is not acting differently (ie: secretive, disinterested) then you are asking a question based on your own insecurities, and nothing that she has done. I have a feeling that if you showed her your post she would be pissed and you would be single. As for her being tighter I have a question for you....Is your dick the same EXACT size every single time you have sex? I am female and know the answer and that is NO! Here is a novel idea.....if you didnt have sex for 2 weeks your dick might have been more swollen or sensitive compared to if you had sex daily because you were more "excited" I am not trying to be rude, but to assume your girl is cheating is a bit extreme.....when she has some guys phone number or is sneaking around then accuse away.....until then why not just enjoy the sex and appreciate that you have variety because your girlfriend doesnt always feel exactly the same....which by the way would get boring quick!
wizarddrew77 makes a good point. But I feel you should attempt to obtain some proof before moving on.
You will know when a person is cheating. I have experienced it through my husband. Go with your gut instinct. If you feel something is wrong then say something....good chance that she will tell you a lie if she is but in some way you will know. I never asked but the little things were starting to add up....finally I did a little investigating and found out that he was BUT it has went the other way for us. It didn't break us up it made things better and we are now on our way to living the life we want.
thanks peeps, maybe i'm just being paranoid, there is no signs from the way she treats me, she the same, maybe i just expected things to be like it usually is(during sex that is). i dont think she cheating...
I have to disagree. There is value passing through doubt and ending up trusting your lover. Love is not an ON/OFF switch on your heart. It is a daily decision. If someone doubts their lover and examines the situation, the trust that emerges (if it does) will be stronger than unexamined trust.
