Have you ever discussed your sexual past?

Have you and your s/o ever discussed sex acts that you have done with others? Reactions, good or bad?

 

Yes.
Bad.
Lesson learned.

Don't ever ask "Where did you learn how to do THAT?"

 

Yes, no problem.

 

I shared every detail of my sordid past (I got up to a lot of crazy stuff) with the greatest love of my life, despite the fact that she does not reciprocate my feelings and might have been disgusted and scared off forever. She was hardly even fazed. It actually might have brought us a hint of a fraction of an iota closer

 

Ive talkedabout number of partnesr, but not specific acts done with them really (aside from 'Ive never tried this before')

 

Well, I've definitely shared it with people who want to know. I'm not shy about it, I have nothing to really be ashamed of or embarrassed about. Most people are either shocked or turned on.

 

I have discussed those things with boyfriends but when an ex started off by saying "My last girlfriend and I would do..." um, no thank you, stop right there... I don't want to know specifics nor will I share them.

 

Absolutely, well, because I have no sexual past besides my husband. He is my one and only, my past, present, and future. I know of his sexual past only because he and I were best friends before we ever became a couple, so he would talk to me about things like that. Not in explicit detail mind you, but I knew quite a bit. Later on once we were a couple, he said he couldn't believe he had told me those things. Sometimes I wish he hadn't. But hey, it's all good.

 

We've shared stories and sum of it was fine but at times parts made me want to Beat The Shit outta some guys. Some shits just not cool, takin advantage of people and shit, pisses me off. Im glad to know though, cuz shes my girl and i like to know whats going on.

 

yeah it can be a turn on but only when there are few insecurities, if either person is insecure then it can have the opposit effect

 

Yes, always do with no problems. I wouldnt get on or go with the type of woman who would get jealous or upset over what I had done before we'd met, so problems have never arose.

 

My wife and I have had many discussions about our past lovers, including some rather randy specifics. A few times it's even led to "hey let's us try that". We're extremely secure with each other, so there's no problem with things like jealousy.

I've also talked a lot online with folks about past (and present) sexual fun.

Plump Lvr

 

No I haven't- seems off limits to me. Have rarely discussed it with others.

 

Yes.
But very few of the prior experiences were physical =P

No problem. I wouldn't date a girl that was jealous enough to have problems with people from the past.

 

nope i dont share my sexual xperiences
well besides on this site
frankly i think ppl would freak out on me if they found out wat i have done

 

just don't do it.

 

My wife and I have discussed all that. It really didn't change anything. I would have been fine with skipping that conversation.

 

Yes, I have, and it turned out pretty bad bc jealousy wasn't an issue until that was brought up.

 

Yes, and it was fine. We're both very comfortable with each other emotionally, and no jealousy was raised. However, we also avoid the nitty gritty details... Some things are better left alone.