i am confused about my sexaulity

I have been in a furfilling relationship with a boy i love. And i am attracted to him. but whenever i masturbate i do it to lesbian porn, always have. and alot of the times when i have sex i fantasize about women. Also i know if the opportunity ever arised i would definatly have a lesbian experience.

But i don't think I'm gay cuz im attracted to men too. I cant see myself in a relationship with a women because cuz i only want to be around them when im horny (or if they're just friends and where chilling.)


Hmmm..guess this makes me bi?

 

Same here, except the boyfriend part.

I think im bi as well

 

you are 15, 17... most little girls says they are bi because it's cool right now and end up with guys in the end, wait to be a stable adult to know about your real sexuality...

anyway I'm hetero and masturbate to lesbian video too.

 

I don't believe anyone can say for sure that they are gay hetro or bi, you never know what could happen in the future, we can only say what we currently beleive we are. Sexuality is very much a spectrum, not a black or white concept. While I have had sexual experiences with both sexes I prefer women to men. But I can't define my sexuality as any of the three 'named sexualities'. I have known men and women who have lived for 30, 40, 50 years as very happily in a staright relationship. But they have met someone of the same sex and fallen in love with them, and I'm sure the same thing happens to people who have lived their life up until that point as a homosexual person.

 

Hahaha. Pwnt.

 

I was gonna say wait until you're older until you worry about your sexual orientation.

 

It's about time you try something different for a change......

 

i read somewhere that you can't be sure of your sexuality untill you reach your full maturity. So don't worry about what you can't change c:

 

Dont worry about it..just be who you are and enjoy!

 

She sound pretty damn gay to me. Of course, were I a girl I would be gay too.

 

It's a well known fact women are more sensual with each other than men are.

Just look at how girls grow up and what they do with their friends, brade their hair sometimes, have sleep overs till their 30 even, most girls have no prob being naked together.

With guys it's the opposite.

That's why i think all women are a little gay.

\But if you're attracted to men you're probably bi.

 

most people are bi in some way or other. hardly anyone can say they are soley interested in just one gender. many heteros go to gar bars, or gay saunas. many gays are in hetero relationships. they are ony considered "straight" or "gay" because they are more attracted to one gender than another.

 

I don't think most guys are bi. Most women yes, most men?

 

I think we're just expected to be "distant" towards each other. I can't remember who said it, but it was hypothesived if sexuality is not genetic, that all children are born bi.

 

A very profound statement from a young person. Sexuality is not black and white. It crosses a broad spectrim. Be comfortable and explore your sexuality with men & women. I think you are concerned with society's judgement. If it feels good, do it.

Take care and all the best.