It is a very fine line...I know that I feel the same passion for someone that I love as I do for someone that I hate, but one is a happy floaty passion, and the other is an angry one.
i have gotten really mad at someone i loved, maybe reevaluated my feelings for them. but hate? nope. i don't think i really have it in me to hate. i'm too lazy.
There is one girl in particular. Im glad she moved and I dont see her anymore. It got to the point i was outright rude to her yet she would still call me. Never any sex. Thats what made it even more frustrating. We would get close when drunk but it never happened. I got sick of it and ignored her for a long time, when we talk its as if she was living a fake life she cant give up and relishes how i treat her but will never give in. Imma little drunk now. Just want to say i dont long for her, its just an example. I think it has to work both ways.
i wouldn't really call that hate, though. maybe it's just a matter of semantics, but i think hate is wanting to see someone dead, not just to see less of them or they irritate you when they're around.
There is a fine line between love and hate....and you know this to be true if you have ever been in a relationship that is caring, warm, and secure, and your heart is just full of so much love for him...and then you come home from work early one day and catch him in bed with your best friend....automatic emotion switch. lol
I think love and hate go hand in hand. The fact that you love someone means that you are gonna end up making all kinds of sacrifices for that person. The sacrifices that you make will end up making you resent that person, and ultimately end up hating them to a certain extent. Love is Pain is Hate is Pain is Love and back again, but it's all worth it, if that makes sense.
Some comedian once said, you've never really loved somoene if you haven't contemplated killing them.... or something like that.
quote marilyn manson " the opposite of love is apathy. hate is really the same as love. if your so consumed by hatred for someone you might as well be loving them because your thinking of them for the same amount of time." if you really think about it this is sooooo very true.