I've been dating the same girl for a long time. Everything is great between us, we live together and everything. Sex is great, but the "monotony of monogomy" is really setting in. I don't even try to meet new people, the main reason being is that as far as a relationship goes i don't one with anyone else. Also if she found out i talked to anyone shit would hit the fan very fast. I've pretty much given up on the idea of ever doing anything with anyone else. I'm pretty sure if i had explored more i'd be full blown bisexual right now. But as it is, all i have is the thought. I *think* fondling, blowing, and taking a guy would be fantastic, but i dont have any clue if it would or not. I'm a decent looking, young guy. As far as girls go (which im still very interested in) i have really low standards. I'm tempted to go to a larger town about an hour away and see about a one night stand maybe, just to get some variety, with some ho, but i dunno, there's still a significant chance of knowing someone there. As far as guys go, i wouldnt feel comfortable going to a gay bar in town, but i think the chance of me meeting a guy i knew or she knew in a gay bar in another town is pretty damn low. The problem with that is, completly opposite to my standards on women, i'm pretty much only attracted to fit, decent looking guys. If i walked into a gay bar and there was nothing but middle aged dumpy guys i'd leave before i was 3 steps into the door. And from reading previous posts, im sure there will be a lot of "come out!!!" replies but i dont even know if im gay or not. I mean, i think i am, but i thought 69 with a girl would be loads of fun, but its very bleh and i rarely ever do it. I may hate gay sex entirely... or i may love it, but at the current rate i'll never find that out. I'd love to be able to say "I'm 100% straight" or "I'm bisexual" but atm i dont know. Oh, and to give you a little more light on the situation, and on how young i am... i've never even kissed another girl, and i'd like to get this "feeling" out of my system before we have 3 kids and a house and i get caught hitting on the nieghbors daughter, or son, or just pinning it up for the rest of my life.
WOW !!!!!.......maybe you should try to talk to your partner before you actually do anything and say how your feeling. ME, I cant condone cheating because it hurts when your the one cheated on, but thats up to you..at least try to talk first !!
gee, I think you should let the jewel of a girl who puts up with your non-connectedness on with her life, and you should date, period. either or both genders. you are probably simply wondering, but wondering can lead to wonders, as a friend of mine says.
Good point! And you sound way too young to be pinned down in a relationship especially if you're already feeling the monotony. You are about that age where you feel like you need to explore your horizons to see what you like or don't like. Nothing wrong with that. Get out & do it but as always...play it safe.
how old are you? perhaps you need to explore more before getting so serious with this one girl. I went thru a stage where I pretty much tried everything with girls and guys and I've never regretted any of it.
