God Fucking Dammit

day 1 - I am having shit day at work (on register), but this one chick that I never met before that works there is helping me get through it, I fall for her instantly
day 4 - I ask her for her number, despite only haivng been around her for 4 days, she gives me her number, and her AIM sn too
day 5 - I find out that she only just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 months not too long ago (she was dumped) and is not yet over him

waiting has always burned me in the past
my plan was to go balls out on ths one, it worked so far, but it seems much riskier now that the whole situation is presented before me

what the fuck should I do?

 

Yeah cause guys are just SOOOO non- weird.

Just play it by ear... go with the flow... yadda yadda

 

I think guys are way more fucked up than girls. they always play that shit that we're emotional and cause the problems. when its the guys who always over analize things like silence and fuck things up in relationships. not all guys though. some are pretty chillin.

 

guys overanalyze when they actually like a girl
the guys that are chillin just want your **** *nods*

 

everyone keeps telling me to do what I feel, and to feel it out
but as far as feeling it out goes, this is a whole new area for me
I could walk my ass right off a cliff...

 

holy shit its a typing Duck!!!!!!

 

it took nearly 8000 posts from me for you to realize that?

 

I naturally assmed you were a figment of my imagination......

 

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." - Mark Twain


don't ever leave doubt. jump off that cliff if you have to.

 

Just fuckin' do it duckman. Life's for livin'. If she ever wanted you to begin with she's already yours.

Best of luck to you.

 

hmmmm fritz keeps posting after fitz......



hey fucking typing duck!!!!!!

 

My thoughts... tell her you're a little unsure where your relationship stands and how to handle her hang-ups on her ex and that she needs to steer the direction...

not in those words of course, that'd make you sound like a dweeb, but if it were me, that's what I'd like

 

lick her naval.

 

Mmm, I love it when someone yanks the chain on my pierced belly...

 

I call it tuging...but WTF, yeah....

 

so you think I should basically go "hey, I like you, I'm not sure what the hell is going on with you right now, lend me a fucking hand"?
not in those words of course, but I am tryying to translate this too myself

 

exactly

 

But I would wait maybe a week or so... it's hard to know what kind of relationship you have now, if you talk somewhat regularly, sometimes a little light-hearted flirting and she's okay with it, that's what I'd do

 

I would say hey you know I'm just getting over some stuff too. We are both in a period of transition but I really like hanging out with you and thought maybe we could get together after work and just grab a coffee and talk.
Then sit for hours keep constant eye contact and let her do all the talking.
Keep saying to her 'That must have been very hard for you".
Snatch the condom out of my hand-weed hopper!

 

So True and well said.