but, if i left some things at my boyfriends house, and he broke up with me after i repeatedly asked for the items back, is there any way that i can involve the law in this? there are some things i left there that i really need to get back. now, another problem. he has a new fiance that he has known for 2 weeks living with him and his family. not only does she live there, but her whole family lives there. all living off of his dad's checks from dying. i think this is incredibly stupid. after everything i did for that family, paid their bills, made sure there was food on their table, and now that he cheated on me and got a new girl, i've been booted from the family. and yet, his deceased father thought of me as a daughter, and this is the appreciation that i get? i don't really care about the money, just the fact that i've been forbidden contact to his family by his new fiance, and everything i did for them has gone totally unappreciated. now i have the opportunity to get them evicted. and im actually condsidering it. should i?
Best bet: call hte cops and ask. We dont know the laws in your area because, well, we dont know where the fuck you live.
Fucked up! Definitely call the cops. Get his welfare-old-lady-lovin' ass and his deadbeat family kicked out. If they've got so much inheritance money floating around, it shouldn't hurt them at all, they'll know what it feels like to be displaced, and you'll get your stuff back! Harmless!
Have the cops go there with you to get your stuff. Get them evicted and forget about the good you did for them. In the future when you do something good don't think your getting any rewards for being a nice person. Karma handles all the pay backs. Move on and it sounds like the whole family is trailer park trash anyway.
Call the cops and get your stuff back. As for having them evicted.....I would let karma take over. He's 16 and she is 22? Hell girl, karma can take a break on this one because when the cops see a 22 year old living with a 16 year old boy they are going to haul her away in cuffs! Bet that would put a HUGE smile on your face!! Regardless of the son being a complete moron, just make sure that you still hold his dad in your heart and remember the kindness he showed you.
In most places the age of consent is 16, isnt it? And who gives af uck if hes with someone a few years older than him, its his life not yours. 22 and 16 isnt a big stretch. 16 and 42 might be a bit much, but 22? NAwwww.
Just be happy that you are not part of that anymore. Take the memories you have of the father, and be happy with those. As far as your belongings, call the cops, they can go with you to get your things. Let them give you grief with the cops there..HAHA!
Yeah definitely call the cops and get your stuff back. As for the fiansee etc, there's not much you can do about that if the conscent in your state is 16, and if not, ask yourself, is it worth it? You have your stuff, and you're away from them, simply learn from the experience and remember the kindness their Dad has shown you in the past. You don't need creatures like those around.
Do you really need your stuff back, considering that you've already made it two weeks without it? That sounds like a good situation to not be involved with. But if you do need it, ask the cops how it is usualy handled.
Never said it was my life or implied anything close to it. In CA if a 22 year old is with a 16 year old the 22 can be prosecuted for sex with a minor. What I was saying is don't be petty and have him evicted.
