dating at the teenage years sucks...

seriously i must be the only guy who isnt thinking exclusively about getting some cock. in fact thats the least thing on my mind when i want to date a guy , i date them because I like having sex with other men, but i really want a real relationship in which we may not even have sex for a long time and it wont matter. so far every gay guy ive come across has been only thinking about what i look like naked.

sometimes i feel like im the only 16 year old out there who isnt just some horny bastard (well i am but i know how to control myself)

 

i want both.

at the same time.

 

I'm like that too. I don't really want to fall into the promiscuous gay scene right now, because I'm only 17 and I'm just looking for a boyfriend type thing, not just a fuck-buddy type thing.

 

so whats the age of consent where you guys are?
S

 

16, im in massachusetts where gay marriage is allowed

 

16 in good ol' Maine.

 

well, i no a couple 12 year old's who've fucked and i live in New York City. when i was was 11 i sucked a cock and fucked like 3 times

 

i think it's 18..

 

That's just how I feel. I want a real relationship, not some fake "Oh, you're so hot!" BS. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with sex and one night stands, just that Earth is a horrible place to live life alone. Hell, all the guys I've ever fallen in love with I never cared about how they looked yet I'd do anything for them.

Sorry if this is a weird post, I'm really high and trying my best to be cohesive or whatever that word is.

 

Lanze, you live in Mass. I do to and I'm 17. (Sry you are one of the few people on the net that don't just want sex and live in Mass and are openly gay on the net...I started gay forums and such a month ago) Thats awesome though...also I know how you feel in regards to people just interested in sex. I chat with other gay people because I like to hear there experiences etc.(usually they live states away so anything serious would be unrealistic)and I also like to give them advice if needed. Last night I was chatting with this one guy that seemed nice, but then kept asking me all these sexual questions...he wanted me to drive down to Michigan to do whatever the hell was on his mind....I personally thought that was lame. I am definitly pro long relationships. Possibly because I grow really attached to people(that have a good personality and who I get along with) and hate goodbyes.

EDIT FROM SAMHAIN: please swap personnal details I.E email through p.m's, thankyou

 

You need a good long term boyfriend, me and my partner are both 16 and have been together since we were 14!

 

Good for you Andy. That's how I was when I was with my girlfriend.