Well im 13 and ive been thinking about my sexuality. Im not sure wether im gay or bi or whatever. I tend to be more sexualy attracted to men, and emotionaly attracted to women(Relationships). I couldn't see myself ever having a boyfriend, but i really would want a girlfriend. I don't really think about girls sexually but i do with men. Im not sure whats going on, maybe its puberty but all in all, im not sure if im just bi or something. Help?
Personally, I used to feel very similarly about not being able to see myself with a boyfriend. Over time that's changed very, very drastically haha...so don't really stress about it right now, things will become clearer in the future.
I was like this for a while. Don't worry about it, your head will clear up soon enough. Just don't worry about putting a label on it.
I was also the same way. Over a few years though...I have been convinced I'm definitly gay. Just wait it out...your still quite young.
Personally I am straight, but when I were at your age, I felt more attraction towards females and a very vague general attraction towards something manly. Today I kind of interpret this as an attraction towards my own body and self of which I was accustomed to and thats why the attraction. Something else I have to add is that at the age of 13 I felt attraction not only towards a certain gender but to certain shapes as well, and also a crazy need to insert my penis somewhere haha. Crazy shit! Hormones!! Thus said you are too young to know. Hormones are in elevation and you are mind isnt clear enough. Pubert is a crazy confusing thing. Both straight and homosexuals pass through a similar phase, others more others less. Dont think of your orientation. If you think of it too much you might end up confused when your body is finally complete. You mihght feel that way because you are more accustomed to your male body and less to the female since you have had no real sexual contact with females or never thought of having one before but had a male body for years. Dont force anything. Wait and see
I've met lots of guys who say things like this. The funny thing is that I've always been attracted exclusively to guys...physically and emotionally. So I think it's common, but it's not how everybody feels.
Same situation here, at my age, but Ive decided I am what I am ,so why do I have to call myself anything, just dont worry about it baby and focus on being happy, lifes too short to spend it worrying about things that really dont matter, like labels!
sweetheart....... im 18 and is still feel as though im unsure. I have the need to be with/in a relationship with a man....... but find females a lot more sexually attractive. Don't worry about what you are.... just be who you are. no need to label yourself, you're so young and you have the rest of your life to experience the pleasures of being with whomever you may want.
By the time I was 13, I knew I was bisexual. I had been moresexuallt attracted to females since I was young. Not everyone definitely knows, so don't worry about it. Like Court said, she's 18 and unsure. You may not be sure for awhile. Yet another mentioning of the same advice: don't label yourself.
Happens. You'll meet someone. I wanted my tongue in a pussy when I was 13. And, well, that really hasn't changed.
Some people go back and forth lots of times, up to my age, and older, just let it flow, feel what you feel, and it will be okay...
Miss Hannah is right..dont spend your time worrying about it, have fun, or you will end up old , looking back on time you wasted worrying about things when you could have been having a good time !!!!!!!!!
The most important thing for you to do is to not push yourself into anything, I think. It feels like everyone I know had been through this... you've got plenty of time to work things out in your head, experiment, or just one day know what's going on. There's no need to ever label yourself, let alone when you're 13 and still figuring things out. Relax and let things happen!
