Is EVERYONE a little bit gay?

Judging from the ancient greeks I think most of us (dont wont to be absolute so I wont say all) may be a bit gay.

If society was like back then , I think many of us straights that claim will never go with the same gender would have tried it atleast out of curiosity.

 

EVERYONE? I'm a little reluctant to go along with any statement about everyone. As far as I can tell, I'm 100% gayboy.

 

not even 1% heterosexual?

 

for sure!

 

I like the sliding bar kind of thing... I always thought of it that way. There's no black and white in sexuality.

 

like someone said before, sex is sex and if you rub it the right way, it just works for you.

 

I feel like I'm a lesbian in a man's body. I even had a gf leave me for a woman. I think that everyone is a little gay, and that guys especially find that scary. The more a guy protests that he is totally, 100% straight, and there is no bloody way he is even the teeniest bit gay... the more I doubt it. I am attracted to women, everything about them, and don't find the male body very appealing at all. The only problem with someone being totally one way or the other is that you instantly cut your chances of connecting with someone in half. Bisexuals are lucky in that they have twice as many potential partners as anyone else. In 1982, for whatever reason, I had one experimental experience, and though it was not disagreeable, it was okay, it was not as enjoyable for me as being with a woman. Since then, my preference has hardened with age, as someone already mentioned is often the case. I find women far more enticing and attractive than men. I think I am a little gay though. And I see being gay as totally normal for that person. I find nothing wrong with them, accept them as they are, and support gay rights strongly. I see no reason at all that there should be any discrimination or different treatment towards someone because they happen to be gay. To me, calling gay people abnormal, deviant, or anything like that is no more than bigotry.

 

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I consider myself to be completly straight, and I believe that most people are.
I'll even go so far as to saying that I believe that most "gays" are not truly homosexual.

peace,
steele

 

No...Im pretty sure that all Gays are true gays....Im not sure where you come up with your theory !!

 

I consider myself to be completly straight, and I believe that most people are.
I'll even go so far as to saying that I believe that most "gays" are not truly homosexual.

peace,
steele

I'm with you erzebet, though there is always an exception to every rule, but the gay men I know are gay, truly. Where indeed. It is an odd theory that Steele proposes, considering the fact that steele is self-admitted to be straight. I didn't choose to be straight. My gay friends say they didn't choose to be gay. What does steele know that I don't that suggests my gay friends are wrong? I feel they are no different than me, and I wonder is steele had a hard time deciding whether to be gay or straight? I'll bet not. And its no different, steele, for gays. In fact, many gays fight their sexuality for obvious reasons. It is not for others to say what they are or aren't, that is their business.

 

Yes....and I honestly believe that being Gay isnt a choice....no one chooses to live such a life..it would be so much easier to be " NORMAL " and fit into everyones neat little package. Guys like Steele make it sound as if some people woke up one day and said...gee..I think I'll be gay !!!

 

Being gay is not a choice.

 

it's exactly what i'm saying, tho i believe a little more social conditioning takes place..

i believe some people are truly homosexual, most are not, and the ones that are have some mental condition that they are born with.

peace and respect,
steele

 

you are born gay, there is no choice in the matter. i believe sexuality is gray and fluid. i believe there are very few people that are 100% straight or 100% gay. i think most of us fall somewhere along the spectrum. the majority of us are probably close to one side or the other.

 

i think bisexuality is human nature. it is society, man, who has religiously justifed our current notions of sexuality. and because we live in a world that stresses duality and separation instead of union and wholeness it forces people to lean to one extreme or the other. things that can influence this are childhood and parental influences, the ratio of feminine to masculine energies in a person, among MANY other things.
kinsey = the movie, is a good simplified example of what i am trying to convey.

Yes there are people who could never see themselves with people of the same sex, or people of the opposite sex, but i believe this can be explained. "sexuality is fluid."

"follow the heart not the anatomy"

 

excellent post melodiuscorpittarius, and of course it is by a fellow Louisianan, lol.

 

thanks bkcmar
nice to meet a fellow Louisianian
hell, NewOrleans eh?
how goes things down in nola?
i have not been in quite some time.

quite fond of your dog! lol. love animals

 

i agree

 

No pun intended I bet.