How do you dance with another guy?

Serious question, how the heck am i supposed to dance with a guy if i want to, I dont want to have one of us be "the girl" in a slow dance and i guess other dances would be awkward to. Although I do enjoy grinding and being the female that does all the moves and shows off my body LMAO.

 

having one person lead and one follow isn't that big of a deal in my experience, by that i just mean that it doesn't automatically make one of you the guy and one the girl... i tend to lead if i'm the taller one of the pair and follow if i'm shorter than her. it also depends on who tends to be more dominant personality-wise. again, that can vary depending on the partner you're with, being as there are trillions of degrees of dominance and submissiveness. i think you should do whatever feels right at the time, or ask the other person what they're more comfortable with and try to work with it. and hey, you can always switch when the song changes.

i don't know if you really want all this advice from me seeing as you were asking about GUYS, but here's another thing i do when dancing with another woman... with slow dancing i'll put one hand on her lower back and one around her shoulder, this works best with people close to your height. that way neither of you is really being 'the girl'

 

Me and my girl just anced however came natural, there wasnt any lead or follow stuff.

We were sorta thinking of other things!!

 

I think the best thing to do is to go to a place where guys dance together and see what they do. I'm not much of a dancer, so I'm awkward for a whole different set of reasons.

It's like a whole lot of other fun things: just do what feels natural.

 

Hmm, well i guess if i really love the person im dancing with it wont matter how ridiculous we look, or how awesome we are, all that will matter is each other enjoying ourselves.

 

Haha I was kinda wondering this too. Me and my friends were talking and I mentioned I was interested in guys so we decided to go to a gay bar this weekend and see what happens.

It was funny. I went from "Man I hope they react positively when I tell them..." to "They're right. How would I dance with another man?"

It's strange how quick our fears can change depending on the situation.

I'm just figuring that once I get over the initial awkwardness my body will know what to do from there.

 

Yeah well id want to slow dance like this not doing much like the twirling and stuff id think..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fa3cJUfCgRM