I was wondering...I am married and I have been married for 9 years. I am a stay at home Mom. I don't get out much AT ALL. Actually these forums are my only connection to the outside world. (some may call me sad) For the people that are in a relationship or seeking relationships does anyone believe in only being with their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend? Have those morals faded away with Time?
I have been with my husband for almost 10 years, married for 6. I am also a SAHM, we have 2 little boys and we are happily married. I try to get out by myself every now and then, but sometimes it's hard to find a time.
I also have 2 little boys. Ages 3 & 5 (19 months apart). I am happily married too. We have been married 9 years (in October) and dated on and off for 3 years before that. Our marriage is actually "a dream" compared to how we were when we dated. The commitment thing made it hard for the both of us but once we made the leap it has been wonderful. My Husband is 5 1/2 years older than me. When we met I was only 18. I got married at 21. I did not have much experience out in the world before him. Sometimes this is a good thing and sometimes it's not. I don't get out of the house much by myself. It is hard finding the time and when I do have the time I want to hang out with my Husband. Do other's feel the same way about their other? Do they enjoy spending time together? Do they know how to communicate with each other?
Actually you are the first. One time I was told I looked like Reba McIntire (sp?) I don't know what to think about that one...
haha anti, I just looked at her pic and was like wow she looks like martha stewart then saw your post. Thats crazy. You do look alot like martha stewart but alot younger. Martha stewart isnt looking too good these days, getting old. Oh, to answer your question, ive talked to alot of people liek that online. Maybe join the PTA at your kids school? Sorry if their too young I missed their age.. Or I just forgot it 10 seconds after reading that. Meet some other parents. Let your kids go to their house or their kids come to yours and then you the parents can hang out?
"You do look alot like martha stewart but alot younger. Martha stewart isnt looking too good these days, getting old." I think I have a complex now. I don't know what to think about this.... Boys will be starting school in 3 weeks! Yay!!!! I will be busy with them then. One will be in school in the mornings and the other in the afternoon. The change of routine will be great.
I prefer monogamous relationships. I find connections last longer and are much more fulfilling and intimate if I concentrate on one lady.
i prefer the company of my husband to that of anyone else. he's my best friend, my husband, the father of my baby. and we get along and have so much fun together.
instead of the father of my baby, you should have said my baby daddy. has anyone else heard that song. "I hate my baby momma, I hate my baby momma, i hate, i hate, i hate, i hate, i hate my baby momma." God that song sucks.
I AM IN THE Middle of a seperation. but as far as the question....i personally am all about just one on one connections
you do sorta look like a (much) younger martha stewart, but that's not a bad thing. she's old now, (like 65,) and of course she's a bitch, but in her prime, she was an attractive well groomed lady. hell, i even think she looks pretty good now, considering how old she is. i have been married 4 years, and i have been with my husband for 8 years (yep, we got together when i was 14). everything in life is a tradeoff. sure, i "missed out" on some partying, by getting married at 18, but i wouldn't have it any other way. most everyone i know is looking for mr/mrs right. i just happened to find mine very early in life. sounds like you need a hobby or something, to reconnect to the outside world. my husband and i periodically find that we have become sort of boring and stagnant, and we have to make an effort to find something that we are interested in. my hubby has recently taken up golf (yuck!). it's good for him, though because it allows him to get out of the house, and make some new friends. i started volunteering at the animal shelter, which i love. i had been strictly a stay at home wife, which i enjoy, but i was starting to feel a little disconnected from the rest of the world. just yesterday, they hired me on at the animal shelter for about 20 hours a week, which is great because a) i love working there, b) we could use the money, and c) i'll still have lots of time to be a mostly stay at home wife. what, besides your family, are you passionate about? that's a good place to start....
I appreciate your post nightmarehippygirl. As for the Martha thing I was wondering if that was a "Good Thing"? LOL. My attitude is nothing like Martha's so to have someone say I look like her I put all the "Martha" garb into one big "WHAT"? (did you see the Martha movie? I was horrified) I do need a hobby. I like to make jewelry. I do that in the fall. I think your job sounds like an ideal job working with the animals. As for my passions... sadly to say I don't really have many passions right now. Most of my thinking and life has been centered on being home with my two young boys. Being a wife & mother has me wrapped up trying to be the best one I can be. I haven't given my passions much thought except for being passionate about some peace and quiet from time to time. LOL. On the flip side, my boys are good boys. I have seen some of the rewards for being home with them all the time. My Husband also appreciates me. That I am very thankful for.
