i ordered a really funky looking violet and silver clit vibe that had ace feadback from people who'd bought one. anyway it arrived today, as i was getting out of bed actually, so i thought ok lets give it try. its for outside stimulation only and not internal and they guarentee it'll make you come. anyway, it didnt. i havnt had an orgasm for years, so do you think maybe i was too concious of this and not relaxed enough, or am i just not able to orgasm anymore? im totally frustrated by this and scared that my clit has shrivelled up and died or something from lack of use. lol, but its not really that funny right now.
im sure ur still able to orgasm but its proabally u were to tense and not relaxed just try to relax a little good luck
yea try not to think of it as a means of cumming, use it sheerly for the pleasure it gives you and if you cum as a side effect of that pleasure, then its a bonus.
Take a hot bubble bath, light some aroma candles, use your didlo and then use this new toy. Your head has to be in the right place, not just the new toy.
thanks guys i was kinda tense about it. im gonna have another go later, maybe milflover would like to give me a little help? lol!
I still say a lover's patience and tongue are the best orgasmic cure! But to find an authentic lover...............??
lol thanx milfy, but i had another go this morning (friday) and i relaxed more, and thought of you of course! lol and hey presto i came like a fucking volcano exploding! so i been smiling all day, bollox to my bf, i got a new love!
