I love my best friend and his girlfriend is one of my friends, too. I don't really have a crush on him or anything it's just this weird sort of tension we have, everyone thinks all three of us are together already because we kiss and hug, sleep together etc... but nothing happens. Lately I've been having insane fantasies about losing my virginity in a threesome with them and I have nooo idea how to ask or go about this... especially with the girlfriend who can sometimes get jealous of my relationship with the guy in question. I am not attracted to this girl either but for some reason it wouldn't bother me... haha am I crazy? What do you think I should do?
be up front discuss your feelings with her about it. Do not be direct though. Hint on it you may find she is or is not looking for the same. Protect your self, Give yourself an easy out if you do not like what you are hearing. Do not be agressive about it.
Two things you say here are important. First, you say you are not attracted to the girl. Never ever get involved in a threesome with someone you would not have sex with one on one. Sex with someone you are not attacted to is shallow and bland, it is no different in a threesome. You will naturally pay more attention to him, because you are attracted to him, which brings me to number two. You say the other girl is sometimes jealous of you, this is not good, this is a sign that she sees you as competition and suggesting a threesome is going to make those feelings worse, not better. If you follow this path, more than likely, it will endup a train wreck. I suggest you put some distance between you and them, let them be a couple without you for a awhile. Find yourself a boyfriend (or a girlfriend) and scratch your itch away from them, then in a few months, if you still feel the same way, go for a foursome.
if theyre really your friends they will see past jealousy and awkwardness and understasnd how you feel...
