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Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Brand New Soul, Aug 4, 2006.

  1. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Well im 15 and I think Im stright, but I don;t know I have always wanted to have a lesbian experince. And sometime I find my self looking at women. This is probley asked a lot but does that make me gay? or Bi?
     
  2. freakchild

    freakchild Member

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    I just posted a similar question and others told me that i should just wait and i'll figure it out in time. They said i should just enjoy myself for now and wait, since i'm still young. I feel the same way and am also confused. So, i'm here...if you ever want to talk : )
     
  3. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    as she stated above, there is no reason to label yourself at such a young age.

    you have plenty of time to figure it out. enjoy yourself.
     
  4. barefoot_kirstyn

    barefoot_kirstyn belly flop

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    When I was about 13 or so, I found myself doing that, and I actually felt sick. I was raised thinking that it was wrong, etc, so I was so scared. I actually contemplated suicide. It affected me that bad.
    But then, as time went on, I started to come to terms with my feelings and explore my thoughts a little more. (I'm bi, BTW) I still have yet to have any kind of experience...I'm still afraid to tell most people. Only my closest friends know, but my family, forget it. That's a road better not taken....
    but I definately don't feel so uncomfortable with myself as I used to be now that I know it. The best thing that I found to do was just stare at yourself in the mirror and say, "I'm _______" and fill in the blank. It helps, really :)
    Just wait it out, but don't be afraid of your feelings.
     
  5. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Thanks guys :) Your advice means a lot :)
     

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