I am probably wrong but it is impossible from my position to say. She is a distant cousin living aorund 7 hours away and she recently was put back into her fathers care after he abonded her mom and her when she was young(like 4-7). Somehow he was able to gain custody of her even though he left them. Well she has been running away again and again from her father's care, and going to her grandma who lives up there I talked to her, and she now seems to have a quiet attitude, that replaced her playful self that was there five years ago. It could be just high school that pushed her spirt down. And I was afraid to talk deep with her, i didn't want to give her anixity,I never meet her dad so i can't really justly judge, she is an attractive girl of 15 which makes her all the more of a target i'm just worried that something bad is happening, and it is so far away thank u for your time
From the way it sounds, there is not enough evidence to say she is being molested. It is very hard to say at this point. Don't jump to conclusions too quickly, because doing so may cause more harm than good. I would be her friend and let her do the talking if I were you. All the best..
Molsetation happens more than we know. It might be ask her if everything is okay and if she lieks living with her dad. Give her your phone number (if she doesn't have it) and tell her to call you if she ever needs anything or just needs to talk about something. But don;t say anything to say her dad is bad, which you probley won;t cause you said you don't know him well. But if shes ready and when shes ready she will open up to you. I hope its not molsetation and everything is okay.
