Anyone got any advice?

Well heres how this goes i was talking to this girl who i really liked but things didnt work out but ohwell but slowly ive been getting over her.

Well couple months ago i went to this restraunt and this cute girl was there my two cuzins had tryed to flirt with her before but she never really cared. Well when i went with them she started to flirt with me and i really like her. SO some time passes by and two days i went and she was ther she smiled at me. But i dont know if shes into me or not. So i went yesterday around 2 in the morning and she was still working there and i ordered a milk shake and she was like is that all u want r u sure u dont want anything else like laughing but i was all shy and just said yeah. Honestly im never this shy but with this girl im so shy i want to start talking to her but dont know wat to say or do aw plz someone help me.Its about 1 am here and im thinkin about going right now. Just to c her.

 

Thank God i'm not alone. I have the same situation, only the girl I like works at a super market... lol, God this sucks!

Anyway, dude you need to go. You took the time to poste this, just for someone to poste back saying to "go", trust me, that is what I would do in your shoes :-D. But yeah, just go there and ask like how long she works for... Conversation starters (my specialty)... SHE IS PROBABLY NERVOUS TOO, remember that... I swear girls hide that.

Buy something cheap and KEEP TALKING about things that she seems to be interested in... lol good luck bro, I am going to try and ask the girl I like out tomorow... Well later since it's 1am here.

 

Well good luck man yeah im really nervous espescially since shes 2years older and isnt a golddigger or atleast dosent seem like it with the other girls ive dated. I went tonight after some street racing but she wasnt there hopefully tomorrow.

 

Yeah, I am about to apply for a job first, then probably run by there a litle later.


In your mean time, try an think of something to say... DO NOT PLAN IT OUT, THOUGH... If things don't work out the way you planned them out, odds are you're gunna get nervous and not know what to say... Just "Think" about how you'll ask her out... Ask her if she isn't too busy, if you could take her out to the movies (instant classic, if she likes you)... Then ask her if she wants to get something to eat, after that and work from there.

If she manages to say "yes" to your offer about going to the movies sometime, then give her your number... If she really likes you she'll call you. (maby do this before asking her out to the movies)

 

yeah im gonna go for it hopefully soon im kinda nervous but its all good watever happens happens, goodluck with u man

 

Well, just remember I'm in the same boat as you, in this case, so I hope that brings some confidence to you

 

man you got to go for it because i know you want to talk to her, be with her and spent time with her, i too like this girl but i can never think of any thing to say when iam around her and i feel like a dumbass, but the part that sucks the most for me is that that girl has a b/f and i herd he was cheating on her,

 

That sux dude.


I really feel better knowin i;m not the only guy. Go for it, both of you.


rappinggralph, DO NOT tell her about her b/f... That will severly mess with her... Then again it will hurt when she finds out. Can you talk to her b/f? Get him to break up or something... I've never been in that situation.



I am good in talking, I just get nervous... Well... Once I get talking I feel MUCH confidence and lose my worry, but before I talk is what gets me. REAL QUICK!... How should I ask this one chick out, I mean I know what to do, but I am like just not thinking of what to do.

 

i dont think i can talk to here b/f cuz i never talked to him ever

 

rappingralph i know u like this girl bcuz ur my younger cuz , just talk to her as for me im not sure if this girl is interested in me thats wat im scared of

 

So, you haven't gotten any further with her, dude? Well, likewise over here in J-Ville.

This may help you feel better. I dunno.

I haven't seen the girl in about a week, right, and I go in there and she is in the express lane. In my mind i'm like, "now is your chance!". I go and get what I gotta get, cause i'm hungry as hell. Well, I get up there too her isle and I swear I think she saw me, but then looked away and helped the ppl (shes a cashier btw).

It's my turn... I am nervouse as fuk, cause she looks like it's been a long day for her... Anyway I go and she smiles at me and I go "So, howz it goin" and she says, while scanning my grocieries "Good, good" (something like that). I say, knowing that she is tired or so... "It's busy here--" and she nods her head and such and says "we need more baggers.

Anyway, I am broke i'll just say that to you all... But I gotta use my ma's (err...) Debit Card and me and her started playin about how it's actuyally mine (she knew it wqasnt mine though... I felt bad the whole time cause it wasnt mine). She goes "Cash Back" I say "nah" and she goes " Boy, this yo mama's card you need to say YOU want $50 back *laughs*"... At this point I am--

1.> Pissed that I don't got a job... Well maby this Friday I will.
2.>Embarressed as HELL
3.>Do Not Have Any idea of what to say next.

... Well, so I leave the store on accont of people being behind me in line and shit, so I cant make a move, and cause I feel terrible about using my ma's card... Emberrasing.;p... BUT, we made eye-contact the whole time, so I think she is just waiting for me too ask her.


~ Helpful Advice? My friends tell me, that SHE DOES NOT CARE!!!! NO1 buys their parents grocieries with their own money.

 

well im still stuck here lol i went today and she was all like bye smiling and i just said bye but aw i dont know wat to say to her

 

Do this next time you see her:

Go up to her, order a milk shake whatever. "Hey, you know i'd like to get too know you a little better, can I take you too the movies?"

Check her facial expression first. If it is good (which you can tell TRust me) ask her "And get a bite too eat afterward"... That's what ima bout to do>

 

IF she says "yes", then ask her when she gets off work or whatever or when you can pick her up.

If she says "no" or "I have a b/f" WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!:!!??!?!?
There are PLENTY of gurl just waiting for bachelors like us!!... I suggest also slipping her your number when giving her money for the shake.

 

both of you should just go for it! i know you guys want to talk to her and be with her,
hey milflover i went to eat at whataburger and guess who was there

 

I turned 17 today (7-30-06), so my confidence and addrenelin is pumped too ask the girl I want, out.

To be completely honest, the reason that i'm stalling so much is because I have no job... I have been trying this whole summer and got no call backs, I know it's cause everyone wants a summer job and I started a little late... I should have one during school though.

This brings me to another question. Do girls prefer 'Gifts' or 'Money'? I may not have a job, but I do indeed have money, and can defintely support the gifts.

 

i dont know jermey but dont fall for a gold digger went last night in the vette with a cuz but she wasnt there, oh well rappingralph she was there damn when was this i went last night around 2 but she wasnt there oh well

 

it was during the day on saturday

 

cool lucky lol

 

Hey I appreciate the b-day congrats, rappingralph!

I'm prob. about 2 go up in there, Rowes, today or tommorow and talk wit that gurl... I think she's single so i'm good to go.