Guy Virgins (adressed to the ladies)

S'alright, lol.

 

What's cute is that pic in your sig.

 

I lost mine at 24. Had nothing to do with not having offers, but at the time I was very adamant about not losing it to a one-night stand.

 

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Well I've no doubt that anyone who has read my other numerous posts on this forum would be expecting me to reply and I'm not one to disappoint when it comes to posting messages!


I noticed that someone commented "12yo virgin = ok but 40yo virgin = bad"
and I can see why anyone would think that but try thinking about it from another angle. A 40yo would normally have at least 1 marraige or several relationships in his past, maybe a few children to pay out for, possibly a very resentful ex-wife/partner just waiting to cause trouble. Now think about that 40yo virgin again! No relationship baggage, Not going to have any bad habits from past partners.....in other words A BLANK PIECE OF PAPER.

And before anyone says anything - no I'm not trying to "sell" myself here. To be honest I'm way past the point of caring if I ever have sex or not. And yes that is my choice but don't write off perfectly decent guys just because they have saved their virginity for someone who deserves it.

One final point that I've often had asked of me is "do you live with your parents" - well excuse me but for some reason that is also seen as a BAD thing and I don't understand why.
If I choose to stay at home and look after an elderly parent who would otherwise be alone and struggling to cope then how exactly is that a bad thing? Surely that shows some level of commitment.

Personally IF I was to go into a relationship I'd do everything I could to make it work and not disappear out of the door at the slightest problem, why? because I have patience to deal with things.

Right I've said what I wanted to.......

 

Fun to play with, but I prefer a man that knows his way around my body.

 

Ummm it depends on the age of the man.Most of my boyfriends are older then me so i dont have that alot,but one time I dated a guy my age and he asked me if I was a virgin and I said no,when i asked him if he was a virigin he said yes and it didnt bother me becuase I just wasnt out of dick,but if a girl is out jsut for dick shes gonna bitch about it.My last boyfriend was virgin untill he was 20 because he was afraid to show off his winky to anyone .

 

As far as the post about it being cool guys have the "willpower" to not have sex... well, guys are rather simple creatures. Its the rare guy who is a 20+ virgin by personal choice, and not by circumstances.

Like they say, if a girl has a guy friend, he'll probably fuck you if you ask. Guys are easy like that.

 

Guy here - just remember, virgin or not, a person learns. So what if the first time you fuck he's not the greatest? Especially if he tries hard to get you to cum. Teach the little bugger, and each time you bang he'll improve... seems like a win-win scenario to me.

 

what, because they choose not to play stupid mind games

 

oh, please.

 

So how about this situation?

I had a few girlfriends previously, none of which lasted long enough that I felt I wanted to do anything with them. Then I ended up dating a Christian girl for 2+ years. She was kinda weird about sex, in that she was cool with oral and whatever, but did not want to actually have sex until she was married (which I never really got, but ablidged, because I cared for her and wanted things to work). Eventually I left for college, and we were having some other problems so we figured it was best to end things on a high note and remain friends.

Now my college is weird, in that I have at least 30 hours of class a week, which can be any hours of the day (24/7), all 12 months a year. Basically nerd bootcamp. It's a pretty intense schedule and curriculum, so I've decided that I don't want to waste my time and money on relationships while I'm in school.

So there it is, I'm still a virgin. Do these circumstances justify it?

 

Nobody should have to justify why they are a virgin. If you want to do it at 12 then do it, if you want to wait until you're married then thats fine, if you don't feel comfortable doing it at all then don't do it. There are no rules just preconceived ideas. What is right for one person might not be for the next.

This idea that ALL guys are just born pre-programmed to go out and have sex with as many girls as they can sounds kinda sad to me, thats saying that a guy has no control over what he does because his body (or one part of it) rules his life. That is BULL.

 

I agree, I was just showing how rediculious the idea "If they're a virgin, it's most certianly not by choice." is.

 

This is a laughable topic. Males are the same as females. I am a mostly dominant female so getting my paws on a male virgin is great. Its great to be with a virgin male if they are willing to learn and dont think they know it all just because they can say, "Ive watched alot of porn, I know what Im doing." PUH-LEASE!

Virgins are cool. I like virgin dudes. No complaints here.

 

i'm a virgin..

 

At your age, I think thats a good thing.

 

I like dominant women. Do I have to be a virgin for you to want to get your paws on me, or will an experience horny old basterd do?

 

I want to be raped by a girl. I'll pretend to be a virgin...

 

I personally wouldn't want to sleep with a guy who was a virgin. Not because i see anything wrong with it, i'm just fairly submissive in bed. If a guy can't take control, i don't get turned on.