Hello all. I'm new to this site and have some serious concerns. My wife of nine years and I are going through some serious problems. She has told me that I do not have the biggest penis she has ever had sex with. When she has told me I was the biggest for a long time. She told me that she said I was the biggest to avoid a fight. Now I feel like such a loser. It hurt me badly and now I feel like such a...weakling and piss ant. She has told me that I'm not the smallest and I'm the only one who has brought her to a screaming orgasm. In fact I'm the only one that has made her cum. I'm only about 4 1/2 inchs hard and about 2 soft. She has said the biggest was about 6 or 7 inches. I feel like less a man. Please give me some advice I need your help!!!!!!
Wildside, You are a married man of nine years. Your wife is sexualy satisfied. I assume that you are living a sound life and are respected by your neighbors. If you want to judge your manhood, don't look in your pants, look at your life. Look at the wife that loves you. Look at the kids (if you have any). Your life should tell you that you are a man and not just a big dick. check out this thread http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=180897
So... you're 4 1/2 inches long and you believed her when she said you were the biggest? You gotta be kidding me, if a woman has ever slept with more than one guy, you aren't going to be the biggest guy shes been with, unless shes a very unlucky woman.
Now thats nasty!! Im a female and from my point of view i am FAR more interested in the person themselves the penis is the last thing on my mind!!Kind caring considerate etc mean far more to most of us woman than your man hood.
Notice the differing responses: adult - humanity trumps sex and size; adolescent - ya shoulda known, dude; woman - trust and care beats all. Wow! Take you cues carefully, wildside, no return to adolescence - not allowed. Never!
To Haid-she is the only one I ever been with. She was my first. She had plenty of other partners before me. To Fastswitch- Thanks man. To MikeE- Thank you for the reference To Cordy- Thanks a lot To Slothguy- Man don't be a asshole peolpe have problems
Cordy is right!!! - just ask her to be honest with you and dont play more games. To me the size does NOT mean anything. Sex is the head of people and I have many female friends who tell me size IS NOT important for them.
My tu'pence worth:- The fact that you have consistently been sexually engaging enough for your girlfriend/fiance then wife for at least 9 years a recommendation that you are a forfilling lover...you could have a baby's arm of a dick but be a selfish **** in bed...!! Its a hiding to nothing when you start comparing yourself to people you have never met (certainly on the basis of a spurious calibration such as dick size)....Did any of her partners have a motorbike?..Does that make them more fun than you? I'm not being intentionally flippant...I just think a stern talking to might shake you a wee bit...you have a good thing going mate... keep your chin up!
This is silly, i'd be much more concerned with pleasuring my partner then having a massive cock and she said you do... so ask your self, would you rather you be the biggest she's ever had but not be able to get her off?
