Women who are obsessed with exploiting men's insecurities

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by misterrain, Jul 29, 2006.

  1. misterrain

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    They suck!!!!!
     
  2. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    Works both ways Bro. Let it go and move on.
     
  3. misterrain

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    let what go? are you saying they don't suck?
     
  4. SoggyGranolaMomma

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    I myself would need an example of such exploitation to determine whether it is actual or perceived.

    Then I could decide if they suck or not.

    More info please.
     
  5. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    Let go of your anger which is yes very normal after anyone (Male or Female) has used your heart to wipe their ass.
    So for EVERY DAY you stay angry-it's another day wasted where you can be happy with someone else.
    Just think of this person and in your mind point a remote and them and say.....NEXT!
    If they treated you this way I am sure they no longer deserve (most likely didn't deserve it anyway) your energy and more important your love.
    Many times the love we THINK we see coming from another is just our OWN love shinning back at us.
    Peace The Wiz
     
  6. misterrain

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    nobody really treated me any way. I just think that women who are obsessed with men's securities suck. I usually stay away from them, so I don't really know any in real life. I don't have issues with women or anything either... I mean, my best friend is a woman, and she isn't obsessed with men's insecurities.

    but hey that thing about love is nice.

    oh and for that other person, I mostly mean things like that post about penis size. I mean, how horrible does someone have to be to write something like that? I think the answer is: VERY!!!
     
  7. SoggyGranolaMomma

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    Mmmkay, so you don't KNOW any women who do this (I don't either) so where would you have gotten the notion that they exist?

    I think it takes a rare sort of beast to purposely set out to exploit anyone, so I guess I'm not getting you.

    I'm pretty sure that most people would agree they suck, so what's the point of the statement?

    I'm confused. [​IMG] That's easy to do though.
     
  8. SoggyGranolaMomma

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    I mean, the penis size thing..saying that, posting that is indeed mean, but how is it exploiting them?

    I guess exploitation to me means that you use something against someone for personal gain, but they don't know you are using them.

    Like in the penis situation, a chick exploiting her man's small penis would tell him he is sexy and his dick is awesome to make him feel good about his insecurity. Then she would ask to take pictures of it because, ya know, it's so huge, then turn around and post them on a small dick man website for money. He thinks she thinks he's great, she's keeping him dumb in order to cash in on him by stroking his fragile penis size ego.

    Laughing at a dude for having a small dick is just being a bitch. It has nothing to do with exploitation.
     
  9. misterrain

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    They're not exploiting men, they're exploiting their insecurities... for some sort of personal gratification, ie: they like having this thing that they can use to make guys feel uncomfortable or inadequate, and they feel good because men are feeling uncomfortable or inadequate.

    I didn't mean exploiting in terms of financial gain, it's more in terms of making themselves feel bigger by making others feel smaller.

    This is an issue for guys, women know it, and some women use it. For that, they are horrible. That's all I'm saying. I don't know why I would need to say anything else... I'm just bored and on the Internet!!!
     
  10. SoggyGranolaMomma

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    Oh ok. I was just thinking this was more of a discussion forum. [​IMG]

    There really isn't any sort of discussion because a) this isn't something you are currently experiencing and 2) no one in their right mind would disagree with your statement.

    So that's all! Have a good one.

    On a side note, women who do that, only do that because men let them. If men stand up for themselves, women like that lose their power.
     
  11. BeaverKoffi

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    Eh, nice to hear from women =) If woman sees that man is confused, or dont know what to do.. or feels nervous ( its very bad, work on it if yo u do ) She will understand that you suck , and nothign but some base for her supplies and will use u as long as u will let her, Without giving u at least what u expect...sex... maybe some slight kiss when she think shes loosing you to get u back.
     
  12. SoggyGranolaMomma

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    I think that any woman who would do that is a pig and deserves no man.

    There is no reason to do that to any person and if someone did, they have deep seated issues involving the need to make others feel like shit so they can feel good about themselves. Bullshit. Go to therapy and take care of your luggage, don't unload it on someone else.

    I'm sorry, this is why I hate most chicks and have no friends. I cannot stand women who cut off their man's balls. [​IMG]

    It's not what it's about. If your man is insecure, you have the power to build him up. It does no good to tear him down.

    I'd dump a chick like that in a NY minute.
     
  13. spooner

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    people let themselves get exploited.
     
  14. dawn_sky

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    I would edit this to say that people only do that because people let them.

    Women and spammers exploit men's insecurities about penis size and sexual performance.

    Women and advertisers and the media exploit other women's insecurities about their bodies, hair, wrinkles, etc.

    Men exploit women's insecurities about their appearance, their intelligence, their worthiness, etc.

    Both men and women in emotionally abusive relationships have to deal with the abuser exploiting their insecurities (nobody else will want you, you need me, etc.).

    I'm not sure which insecurities that men have that other men exploit, since I'm not a man and don't have to deal with that, but I'm sure they're out there...

    So, everyone who exploits the insecurities of others sucks, regardless of gender!
     
  15. LdyNimue

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    Well Said ;)


     
  16. spooner

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    I blame the feminization of men.

    I'll give people a hint - worrying about the size of your dick makes you a hundred times more womanly than actually having a small dick.
     
  17. LdyNimue

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    There are people out there who derive great pleasure from hurting other people. Men or women it makes no difference. It's not a gender thing, it's a reaction thing.
     
  18. Gypsy_girl

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    There's a saying "You teach people how to treat you", so although the women who get an eago boost out of playing on a guy's insecurities does definitely suck, the guy has obviuosly let her before or hasn't stood up and said "that's enough, I won't take any more!"
     
  19. wizarddrew77

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    How we treat other people is how we feel about ourselves. I just went thru something like that where my response is more OMG you must feel like shit about yourself to have done what you have done to me.
    Krama is the worst part of it in this situation-again what goes around comes around.
     
  20. LdyNimue

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    If there is only one thing I can learn about karma (and I hope that's not the case) is this. Karma is the last true form of justice on this earth. Even if we're not around at the time to see it's there. [​IMG]




     

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