ok here's the thing, i have come to a point in my life when again i need to go on the pull, and see what lovely women i can lure to my buduar(i think thats how you spell it). The problem is that spending a large portion of my childhood years in the 80's i have been left with the false hope that cheesey chat up lines work. this illusion has been shattered far to many times. so heres the crack. how do you like to be approached by a man? is there anything that would turn u on/off immediatley? so basically im grovelling for help really.
I preffered it when a guy would just introduce himself with the traditional "Hi, my names Mike". Even a handshake is cool. What i definately didn't like was: 1. personal questions - ie. where do you live. too personal for me although i know some guys do it cos they get stuck for words. 2. invasion of personal space right away - ie. trying to kiss on introduction. comes across as a bit creepy sometimes. Good things to talk about. 1. Maybe start off a light conversation about something totally unrelated to the situation. I still remember they guy who came up to me in a club and asked me what i thought about teaching Gaelic in Scottish schools (i am Scottish) 2. Its ok to make a comment about appearance but try to keep it focused. I like your hair or such thing. Sorry for going on but i wanted to give you some good info- i hope this was? Also i did all my single days in the Uk so i know what ur up against, lol.
I like it when a guy comes up to me and starts making fun of people... in kind of a subtle way. I love it. Since I'm usually already sitting there thinking the same things, it's nice to know I'm not the only jerk in the room.
Here's what NOT to do: Me: *standing at Ruby Tuesday Salad Bar* RubyTuesdayGuy: What's your name? Me: *surprised pause* Sorcha. . . RTG: Where do you go to school? Me: St. Pete RTG: How old are you? Me: . . .17. RTG: You're cute. Me:. . .Thanks. *goes back to table*
it really annoys me when guys start asking personal questions too. The other day I was waiting for my boyfriend in Picadilly Circus and these two indian guys asked me to take a picture of them with their camera. so I take their pic and gave them back their camera and the guys asks me, "what's your name?" I said, "Faby"...he said "what? Fanny?"... me "yeah, yeah..." So he goes, "where you live?" I'm like "south London" he's like "right". he goes again "so where are you from?" me says "I'm from chile"..he goes "Chiny??"...I said "yeah, yeah" After a long pause he says "so where's the boyfriend?" i said "I'm waiting for him now"...after a long pause, they left...nice way to try to chat up girls ah?
i hate it when guys get about 2 inches away from my face before they even know my name........ damn gimme some space**but it usually works if they come up, shake my hand and introduce theirselves, chat about music and compliment me on how purdy I am
I also like it when guys'll just come up and introduce themselves. Gentlemanly-ness is a definite plus. Talking about something compltetly weird isn't cool, but something a little weird is okay. I don't mind "where do you live" questions, but I don't really like anything more personal than that. Asking what music they listen to is such a boring question that gives away the fact that you've run out of things to talk about. Smiling is a good thing, too.
hmmmmmm a lot of nice and useful replys. they have all been logged and noted and store on board the trying-to-flirt portion of my brain. keep 'em comin' ladies. xxx
zeppelina, your actually from chile? santiago? or sutmhin? ever been to pucon? i LOVE chile, went there last year a little while after xmas and left new years eve. hey why dont you just ask them what kind of music they like and whatever they think about whatever the hell is going on around you people if there is somethign special. i dont know....
I love it when a guy confidently says something funny(not perverted) as one of the firsts things he says to me, then introduces himself, after he's already got me hooked on on the fact that he has a since of humor and confidence.
This is really embarassing, but this thread is sapposed to be a reply to another post..but for some reason its a thread now.. SORRY!!
Yes I'm from Santiago I've never been to Pucon, in fact I havent been back to chile in quite a while (about six years). I think I might be going next year (hopefully). I know, Chile is such a beautiful country, I really miss it there
Im attracted to a guy that starts off shy. A guy that looks like hes nervous to speak to a girl. Its always cute when a guy bites his lip too, and of course flashes a little smile. But hey thats just me, but i know others that can relate!
i dont like the whole in your face thing either...and for some reason i HATE when guys just come out and ask if i have a boyfriend, idk, i think its cus its just saying you r looking to hook up, and even if u r and i know it cus ur talking to me, just talk to me, it makes me think u just wanna b friends and want to know about me cus i seem interesting or something lol but idk, i like the whole start off with weird random topics...i like guys with a sense of humor, so try making her laugh and compliments r ALWAYS a plus...
