a gay friend

hello. i am a female and i would like to correspond with a gay male. just for friendship.

 

my cousins gay...

 

..why

 

She is an evil succubus that wants to turn us straight with her wit, charm, and beautiful body...

 

oh no!! the nicest thing in friendship with a gay man is that he actually IS a gay. ok, i've never really known any gay too well. so thats the reason.

 

You probably know a ton of gay people, and perhaps are friends with someone who is, you just don't know because they are not open about it, or not obvious. You can't tell that most guys are gay despite what the media shows you.

 

Yeah, I agree with Lanze. Most of my friends don't know I'm gay, and would never suspect it.

 

Somehow most of my friends seem to be gay ... which is funny because it's not like when I make friends I go around asking "are you gay? are you gay?" But then there was this one guy I could have sworn was gay, and he claims he's not ... hehe I'm rambling.


Why do you want to correspond with a gay guy?

 

i want to have a gay friend, cos it;s kinda stylish amond modern girls.

 

wow... that's really kind of shallow...

 

yeah but what other reason could i have to make friends with gays?? i even dont know what they like. they say they are good girlfriends, so why not trying it??

 

That's so offensive ... look, gays and lesbians are not alien beings, we are humans just like you. There is every range. I've known gay guys who were total jerks, and I've know gay guys who were great and hilarious and kind. And I've known some who were a bit of both.

I guess it's good you want to open yourself to friendship with gay people, but the way you are going about it does seem shallow.

 

so are tea cup Chihuahuas, but they're alot less maintenance. I just hope you're not one of those schnooty bitches.
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i figured thats where her intentions were.

 

ok should i know say i am sorry to all gay people?? should beg for their forgiveness because i am sooo shallow?? should i pleed to become my friend any of them??
yes i am doing it now. )) i offer someone friendship. is that a bad thing??

 

who thew fuck are schnooty bitches?/

 

You shouldn't be friends with gay people just because it is considered to be hip and cool.

 

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Schnuti,

You need not apologize to me, I wasn't insulted. I'm sure that you don't have anything against gay people, just like Paris Hilton doesn't have anything against Chihuahuas. They are kinda cute. But choosing your friends because they are a fashionable accessory is shallow and won't earn you any points around here. Gay people are not "arm candy." Maybe if you were Karen Walker, they are. But that's fiction.

If you actually like gay people, you would probably know some already. If you're looking for a gay pen-pal, that's odd. Are you afraid to actually be friends with us in public? At first I thought your post was a joke. Really. You haven't said anything to change my mind. But in case there is someone reading this who actually wants help being a friend of a friend of Dorothy, I have this advice. Be honest and treat gay, lesbian, transgender and bi people the same as you would treat any other friend and you might find the best and most loyal friend you will ever meet.

Many straight women enjoy the company of gay men, not because it is fashionable but because they enjoy friendship with a man who isn't trying to get in your pants. Also, he'll be honest when you ask if those jeans make you look fat. 1: he won't lie, like your girlfriend will because he isn't competing for the same man, and 2: he won't lie like your boyfriend will, because if you get mad -he isn't sleeping with you anyway.

To want to be friends with a gay person because the experience is unique -that's cool. But to do it to impress your friends is demeaning to your gay friend.

"Schnooty" is a 'play' on the word snooty, because they sound alike. Paris Hilton might be called a snooty bitch if she treated people like objects. If Paris Hilton were German, she might be called a schnooty bitch.

P. S. those jeans DO make your ass look fat!
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You could be friends with a gay person because they are a good person, regardless of who they are attracted to. And all GBLT like different things.

 

lol, classy