It's a shame nobody sells personality nowadays. Seriously, why did you post here? Do you need more e-woman attention?
i think a lot of what you said in that first post rings true... it's good you've realized it and also realized where you are on that spectrum. on the other hand, don't start taking things too seriously now.... life should be fun, and sexuality and flirting is a big part of that for soooo many ppl, young good-looking ones mostly. so yes, know the limits and what kind of person you want to be and yeah... i think you got it.
I learned a long time ago that beautiful women are some of the loneliest creatures on earth (psst, Jester; PM me for my 5 page brochoure on how to turn that to your advantage ).
I think (yes my opinion) the only women who never want sexual attention (i.e. flirting) are those who are constantly bombarded with it... and then when it's actually gone they wonder what happened and question their attractiveness. most people in general seem to need it unless they're uncomfortable with theirs and others' sexualities... or they're basically asexual and it poses no interest to them. there is a difference between random ppl telling you you're hot and asking if they can hit it before they even talk to you, to ppl who are actually interested in other aspects and complimenting on your looks or flirting. in response to your question- if you're assuming i need that attention based on my posts and gallery on hipforums it is a pretty small piece of my life and interaction with others... i generally feel uncomfortable talking about sex to ppl in real life, but i'm trying to get more comfortable with it.... but, sometimes i do love attention... just depends on the situation. and in conclusion... even though you said you're still a man etc etc you also said there's more to life than sex, and implied you want a companion and not a trophy... so are changes soon to come or have you decided that they can come later if you want it?
You're not lucky enough to bone me anyway... And guess what? I don't respect your opinion either! Great how that works huh?
Great post! Men who treat women like objects will never be truly happy! Same with men who treat men like objects
Ahaha. The women who become objects are at fault....not the men who objectify them. The woman lets herself out there to be objectified, men are men and will gladly oblige her. So, no, it's not sad when a woman is treated in that manner as it is her fault. P.S....I don't like you making mature posts....it's kinda freaky. Don't do it again.
Be very wary of this kind of logic -- it's the psychology behind rape. "She made herself into a sex object by wearing those clothes and walking that way, so she was asking to be objectified and raped." Riiight -- cause that's what all women want. We live in a society that EXPECTS us to objectify ourselves, especially if we are beautiful. I'm beautiful, and I flaunt it in my own way -- that doesn't mean I want some guy to molest me. Yuck. In a society already driven by men, be careful where you put the blame. peace
This thread is all baiting. Try harder next time that you post - not to know which forum you are posting in. Best wishes.
what makes you think us woen are so evolved where we don't want that? ie-the possesiveness, not the sexual objectifying. We're not as eveolved as we pretend to be.
Wow, so many chicks are being ridiculously catty in this thread. Dude was just trying to talk out somethings he was thinking about. And yes, being objectified or only approached because of your appearnce sucks. Dressing up vs dressign lazily... the difference in attention iyou get is hilarious, if in a slightly awful way.
Wow, really? And here I thought I was doomed. I'm getting tired of this bullshit. If someone said that about women, everyone would be all over them. It would probably be blamed on the fact the person who said it was a man, which is some twisted as hell logic. Seriously. It's not cool, it just makes you look ignorant. Men thinking women are stupid has left the mainstream, and the opposite has entered it. Nobody seems to care though. Men and women both seem to let it lie without saying anything, but it's plain bullshit, and it's gotta stop.
I agree insanejester. I don't like it when guys whistle and cat call, or honk their horn. It makes me want to throw up. The other day a bunch of guys were standing outside some sort of warehouse building and when my mom and I walked into my place of work, they started whistling and howling. I felt filthy. Later that day when I walked out they were there again and did the same. I flipped them off.