Condoms are always good. In my opinion you always ought to use one, regardless of pregnancy risks, to prevent any nasty spreading of disease. I like to be on top, facing my partner ... it still hurts like hell but at least I can control how much of it I take.
I prefer lying on my back with knees up to chest so I can use the vibe on my clit while he is in me or sitting down onto his penis with my back to him. He prefers it with me kneeling doggie style on the edge of the bed while he stands behind me or me on my back because he can see my facial expressions and touch my pussy. We are in a monogamous 28 year relationship. We don't use a condom.
I prefer doggy, because I have control of how fast he enters. I have him stay still and I lean back into him as I'm relaxed and able. I'm of the condoms always. with the possible exception of a long term monogamous relationship. Oh and use Lots of Lube. too much is almost enough.
I like doggy style but going down on my elbows that way it doesn't hurt my back and it can go in deeper. I also like it on my stomach, I sometimes like to feel like I'm being dominated but not all the time. Without a condom feels better. Lube I don't need that, I get wet enough.
Good questions. Spooning is probably one of the easiest positions, but I really prefer just letting her ride me . Its purley mental for me, not only is she taking me in her ass, but if she is on top, she is truley taking me in her ass. I don't know if that makes any sense. It removes the dom factor completly from myside and replaces it with, "I knew you wanted it there!" LOL. Having her back to me this way is great to because of the visual. As for condoms, 98% of the time no. Only if it is a girl I have not been for a long time.
def with my lieing on my side and him spooning me. altho after a while i start writhing so much there isnt really a position involved, its kinda here there and evrywhere, but it is deffo how i like to start things off. Lube is a must, not coz i need it all the time, but nothing gets my man going more than "get the lube out" coz he knows it means hes going in my ass. plus it feels damn good. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm sorry got side tracked fantasising. condoms are not for us, i know its messy but hey what can say im a dirty girl
Oh yeah, I forgot about lube. I am with ya Kadn. When the lube comes out I know we are going good places . I prefer slightly heavier stuff if it is water based, almost a gel type, other wise almost any silicone based is awesome
my favorite is the girl flat on her stomach, no condom girl riding with her ass is so hot too, nothings hotter than when she shoves your cock deep inside her asshole
doggie style or spooning. I don't use a condom with my bf because we're both clean... Otherwise I definitely would.
My wife and I love it the same way (her on top), only with her facing me. That way she can ride me hard while I play with her tits and clit. We have anal sex about 5 times a week and have never used a condom. That's a lot of cum in her bum!
My wife is rather limber and can put her legs up to her shoulders while laying on her back. I can get it deeper that way than any other.