when a guy tells a girl to "let it flow"? I was trying to ask him how he thought I felt about him, in a round about way, he told me to stop analyzing and just "let it flow". Wtf does that mean? btw, this was during a four hour phone conversation. is that "lets just be friends" in man language? or is it " I like you but I still wanna have sex with other people and be free"? help me out guys
im no expert but i think it means I like you but I still wanna have sex with other people and be free
i cant answer without putting it into the context of a phone script haha j/k ya he probably just wanted to fuck the shit out of your friends
If he's saying just let it flow, I'm thinking he means not to rush things, let things happen with no pressure
ok if you are bored and really wanna do me a favor, go here and read the whole story http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21748 I just wanna know that I am not wasting my time or affection replies would be greatly appreciated ( and rewarded with sex, just kidding)
Let it flow mean I don't really want to think about the situation so let what comes naturally come without question.
missfontella I read your thread. Ain’t love grand? First off never ever, ever , ask a guy that you aren’t in a relationship with how he thinks you feel about him. It puts an immense amount of pressure on him as it is [for you] the culmination of all those growing feelings you have been feeling. You said yourself that you didn’t want to give him an ultimatum. Unfortunately that is pretty close. What you have done is let it out of the bag that you want more from him. Except you have done it in a pretty silly way, IMO. If you knew you only had one shot at it, only one chance to tell him how you felt, I really doubt that you would ask him to guess how you felt . You can only tell a guy you want a relationship from him once. He isn’t going to forget. And if he isn’t stupid, you just used up your token. You put it on him and protected yourself. You tried to save yourself from the agony of being shot down by trying to get him to guess how you felt. That’s a game. Love is no game. But I am just another person and my opinion is as good as the next on that. What’s done is done. He told you to stop analyzing and let it flow? It doesn’t mean he likes you but still wants to do it with other women. Only a small percentage of guys have eyes for another in the budding stages of romance. Unfortunately at this stage it seems like it does mean he just wants to continue with the relationship as it was. Doesn’t seem like he is ready for what you want. If he was he would have told you. If he really wanted to be with you like that than he would have told you regardless of how you brought it up. But he didn’t. Doesn’t mean that love isn’t possible in the future. Doesn’t mean something isn’t going to grow from the relationship you two have now. It just means it hasn’t yet. Just enjoy your time with the guy. If you love him, love him. Spend as much time with him as you can. Don’t rush him, let him fall in love with you on his terms. Don’t play games, be yourself. If it was meant to be it will be. When it does, the weeks and months you patiently and lovingly waited will be worth it. Even if it doesn’t you still have someone in your life that can take you to the top of the mountain or the bottom of the sea. Good luck. Be patient.
sounds like a pretty noncommittal (sp?) answer to me...he probably just wants things to continue as they have been, without having to analyze them.
Thanks OSF. You are probably right. I guess I'll just chill and say fuck it. Whatever. I got other guys trying to have a relationship with me so I was trying to see where his head is at. I don't wanna pass on a cool guy to wait around on somebody I have no chance with. That's why I was trying to get some idea of how he sees me. Its a que cera, que cera situation. Those are the breaks Break it up, Break it up, BREAKDOWN!!!! *starts poplocking*
