does he really want me?

so i really dont understand them.this guy i was crazy about broke up with me february last year, after that we didnt speak he completely broke my heart, then christmas he got intouch so we started sort of seeing each other a bit,and by seeing i mean the occasional naughty stuff,then all contact got lost when he lost his mob and we didnt speak from april onwards.he got intouch with me on saturday with the message "i miss you,so thought id say hello, sorry if this messes you up but ive been thinking about you for weeks and just had to say it" he then moved onto saying messing me about was the worse thinbg hes ever done, he called up and asked me to go see a movie with him and catch up so on saturday i did, it was great felt just like old times.we went back to his flat and just chilled, and we just got talking and he kept sayting he needed me and wanted to be with me and stuff... half way through his mate turned up, but he handed me a piece of paper saying "i love u" i went round on sunday and stayed the night, stuff happened but at the same time he was so sweet and loving towards me..something hes never done. i text him last night asking what was going on with us and he said he didnt know and we'd talk at the weekend (he works nights and has weekedns off).i was hurt by this cause his feelings were pointing towards us being together. i text him saying fair enough but if you decide you dont want me tell me before the weekend cuz it wont hurt as much..he replied with "i want you,you just confuse me tho!" since lastr night ive not heard off him and havent text either.


im so confused as to why ive confused him tho, fair enuff i spoke about an ex but he asked about it,i answered the phone to my ex a couple times,but im not sure if it bothered him or not?im just so confused as to what ive done to make him confused...he knows i want hima nd him only..always have done... can anyone offer any advice? am i just being stupid thinking he really wants me again?
sorry its so long

 

Why did you broke up in the first place? Does he deserves a seckond chance? Only you know this answers. You don't want to have broken heart again, do you?

 

He is just being nice cause he is horny.

 

we originally broke up, cuz hes got a rep for bein a "player" he sed he didnt wanna hurt me. you rekon he just wants sex? hes sweet talking me for that reason and that reason only?

 

yes, it would appear that he's horny and figures you can be had... to hell with that, unless you don't mind being played for a fool. most guys will say anything if they think it will get them laid.

 

If he is a player, than maby he is playing right now...

 

Yes if he's a player, perhaps this is another game. If you, I'd keep my gard up.

 

had a txt from him last night saying "sup baby girl,speak at the weekend" do guys jst use this for any girl or is it meant to mean sumthin?

 

He is just using you. If you want that, continue. If not cut off the sex. If he is interested in you and not just sex he will continue the relationship anyways.

 

What Haid said. No more sex, no matter what he says, no matter how horny he gets you, no matter what. If he's still around a month from now, maybe he might be interested in more than getting laid. (Unless you like being nothing more than a warm, moist hole for his pleasure.)

But it sounds like he knows you'll put out for him any time he calls, so he keeps your number on hand for those rare times when he's got nothing better going on.

 

It's just a Booty call and nothing else-See it for what it is and what it isn't and move on.