okay, me & my best friend have been very close like sisters, we have lived together for years. i love her a lot but we always fight like cats & dogs but we never stay mad. finally we got in a really big argument & its so bad that i threw all her shit out of the house & we havent spoken in days. this has been building up for awhile and i think its really for good now but the thought of her not being in my life makes me really sad but she doesnt seem to care, she wont even talk to me about it. i left her a message saying i love her & usually that would do it but nope, she still isnt speaking to me. so now its all on her & i really think its over. what do y'all think is going to happen? is it for good or just temporary? we have been through some shit together, too much shit for us to just not talk anymore over something fucken stupid. i just really dont know what to do about it i cant leave things the way they are.
best friend don't stay mad at each other... so how long ago did it happen?? Think about the last closest big fight you two had.... how long did it take you two to make up??
Just let her cool off for a while. Make sure she knows that you are willing to talk about it or just listen to her when she is ready. And make sure you apologize.
well i had the same best friend for about 6-7 years. i mean, INSEPERABLE. people would sometimes ask us if we were related, and always associated one of us with the other. well, i sit here today not having spoken to her in about 6 months. we didnt get into a fight, either, i just stopped being able to stand things she did, and im sure i annoyed her too. i would like to think that we will start talking again, because like you said, we just have so much history and growing up together that you cant possibly leave it behind. but i thnk we both have. sad but true; i hope your relatioship picks bad up though, because loosing a best friend is extremely hard to do.
On that note... I've lost many best friends, Kim, Erin, Connie, Kiera, I'm sure there was others. The thing is sometimes you just grow in one direction and your friend grows in another and you just drift apart. In your situation, you had a fight, and it would benefit you both to clear the air then decide on where you want the friendship to go after that. But the people that I describe and what dietcoketree describes above are just people who eventually move on with life and you have to do the same. I'm hoping that my friends are doing well for themselves, as I am but I don't really have anything in common with them anymore and don't really want to be around their lifestyle.
