sorry this is so long... okay, so i have this friend, and lately, she's been a real bitch. all she talks about is herself and her boyfriend (which makes me very jealous being the lonely person i am! lol) and i'm soo sick of it! then when i go to talk about myself and whats going on in my life, she'll do these things that piss me off. like she won't give me any guidance and will just say, "okay..." and then get mad and be like, "well what do you want me to say?" but i always help HER out. i think it has something to do with this wonderful boyfriend she just got. he makes her happy and she knows how good she has it. so i think she's kinda into herself now. i feel like i'm being cheated in the relationship and i'm pissed off. i also feel kinda selfish now that i think about this post ... so i guess my question is what should i do? i know it's probably best to tell her, but that's only gonna piss her off more and i hate fighting/loosing touch with people. thanks to anyone that can help me peace <3
Start charging her by the hour or every 15 minutes or something... then she'll be more careful with her words.... also, find a cooler friend that you have more in common with and who is actually good at being a friend.... and, uh... good luck..
I have a friend like that. She only wants to talk about her life and BF. She will talk on end about her and soon as I start talking about my life she goes, " Oh, I gotta call you back" and never does until she has another problem. Do what I do...igg her. I've been ignoring my friend for a few months. The other day she came to my house and was like " When are you coming to my house?" I told her " When you get your head out of Jose's ass" She is mad that I don't pay her any attention.... If your friend is a real friend, she will change once you get her attention If not, forget her self-centered ass
I had a friend the exact same way. Narcisissm at it's best. I got to the point where as much as I loved her as my friend I couldnt take the way she acted. Maybe she couldnt help it, I dunno, but a friendship is a two way street. I pretty much just stopped talking to her....she knew I was upset with her due to a certain situation and she didnt make much effort to speak with me. But then around Valentine's Day(4 months later) she sent me a card that read...no lie..." Im pregnant, getting married soon, and buying a house and a new car! Call me." I could care less at this point. I dont want negative engery in my life and having her as my friend was bringing me down with the way she acted....as if I was worthless (except to listen to her crap) and she was a queen. It sucks cause we were great friends for a long time. But just remember it is a two way street and if you are unhappy with her friendship then you dont have to stick around. But I would try talking with her first about things. I tried that also, but my friend just brushed it off and ignored any effort I tried to make to talk about it. So, what else can you do? Good luck with everything!
thanks for the advice guys. i've been ignoring her for the fast 4 months, and she still talks. man that really sucks that your friend finally wrote to you just to brag but you know, you're right, and i'm glad you got away from her. it probably would have made you more mad the longer you hung around with her. i think i might just keep talking about myself to my friend to see what she does, do the same exact thing muahaha...it's worth a shot.
