Question for the Men

I prefer your type over a slut any day. Except mondays.

 

what happens on Mondays? lol

 

Yeah, definitely except for on Mondays.

Everybody goes back to work on Mondays ... -_-*

I vote that we rename Monday to Sexday. It's much more aptly named.

 

I love you all

 

There's two type of men in this world: I'm of the ones who prefer a Catwoman instead of a Celestial virgin Sex is just Sex, and believe me it's a good thing, so why don't we all practice this beautiful "thing" and stop caring about what ppl think about us.
Peace from Argentina!

 

Choosing between a person that has been around the block a few times and one that has stayed indoors I'd naturally go for the one that can show me some sights.

Does the "I don't want my partner to have had much fun before me"-thought spring from insecurity, vanity, or what is the deal? Rest assured, there are better lays (than ourselves) out there.

 

I ask questions of Internet people because, since they do not know me, their answers are less biased. It removes me a little from the situation too, because if they react badly to me ... hey, they don't know me, I can't take it personally.

 

The past is the past for either party involved.
Who cares how many they have been with?
If it was 15 and you only were with 10-what would have to be done? Even the score?
What would that prove or do?
What's more important is NOT to USE Sex as a tool for power or a reward system. It's a wonderous thing and fun. Attaching all sorts crap to it is what makes it so much Drama for everyone.
Besides Sex is Sex-now making Love is a whole different thing.
It's easy having sex-but things get a lot more interesting when you make love with someone.

 

Well so what? Do you know why I will never ask my girlfriend how many men she's slept with? Because it doesn't matter. She's with me NOW, and THAT'S what matters.

Peace,

Musikero

 

i agree with you, Musikero. i never understood why guys get all uptight about how many partners a woman had in her past. women enjoy sex as much as men, yet we should have to abstain in order to please future partners? give me a break. that mentality is SO two centuries ago! i don't get hung up on a partner's former sex life (unless he/she was extremely irresponsible and unsafe about it) because i wasn't in their past - they didn't know me yet, so why should it matter? all that should matter is the person's ability to remain faithful to the person they are currently with, and the memories you are creating together now, not the memories from a partner's former conquests.

wise words from a wise man

 

You can have as many as you want provided:-

1)You dont have double standards
2)You dont lie or mislead
3)Dont treat it all as a game ie "Im doing you a favour"
Number of partners is irrelevant.
Trustworthiness is relevant.
But the 2 are usually unrelated IMO