Holding it in after masturbation...(guys)

So...yeah. Whenever I masturbate and am about to orgasm, I always seem to hold it all in, especially when my dick is really hard. Whenever it's only about halfway hard, about half the cum that's supposed to come out, comes out...if that makes any sense. Any tips for stopping this annoying reflex of mine? Also, could this damage my insides in any way?

 

that used to happen to me a lot, then, i just stopped holding it in. ya don't last quite as long and its easier to get hard agian after one of those 'half cums' but i find its more enjoyable jsut to relax and let it happen. do you tend to try to hold it in to sustain the pleasure of the act, or is it purely subconcious?

 

I'm not sure if it's a subconscious thing. It's just a reflex that's grown over the last 4 years I've spent masturbating.

 

So....can anyone help me?

 

It sounds to me like you're holding back the ejaculation, like most guys would, until the very 'peak', but instead of releasing it, you continue holding it. Just let it go. It sounds generic and stupid, but let it go.

 

I jack it till I'm about to go and then I hold it in, aim, and fire, and I release my full load. Tends to go farther too.

 

as everyone said, just "set your mind free" when masturbating. think of nothing, then your body will enjoy the feeling and won't hold the orgazm. or, focus on something that really make you horny, and in this alone while you masturbate.

 

Here's what's happening inside: When you hold the ejaculate inside during the orgasm, the "valve" (I forget its exact anatomical name) which normally blocks the urine flow and allows the ejaculate through the lower urethra, "back-flows" into your upper urethra and into your bladder. It's called "retrograde ejaculation."

According to some sources, repeatedly doing this can weaken the valve and cause it eventually to happen during normal ejaculation as well.

Besides ... it confuses the hell out of the sperm when the wind up in your bladder.

 

So what exactly is the "correct" way to do it?

 

Well, I think the maoral of the story is this: There is no healthy way to "hold in" the ejaculate.

I think your choices are, tissue, condom, partner or ... just let it fly!