I think he is asking what he should do if he wants do be gay but doesn't want to have anal sex. But thats just my guess at what he's asking.
ditto... do you have to have anal sex to be gay or do they allow people to join their group and not have anal sex?
you may it sound like a hazing lol. Its also about the same as "Will you let a girl hang out with you and your friends without her submitting to sex?"
What "group" are you talking about? Do you actualy think homosexuality is an orginazation with rules and members? Gayness, or homosexuality is a sexual orintation that describes who you find attractive. What phisical actions people decide to take is a different matted. And, yes, their are plenty of homosexuals that do not engage in anal sex.
You don't have to do anything sexual that you don't want to. If you don't like anal then just do oral.
thank you, i didn't know gay wasn't an organization cuz sometimes people say gay power so i guess i don't kick people out from the group if they are being bad gays or if they have hetero sex