girl going to movie with some other guy "friend"

Should i be worried? im not really jealous but i dont want him kissing her or anything, they work together..and there is rumor that he is gay but is still dont feel comfortable with it happening but she wants to...so what do you think...im kinda pissed that she even said yes, she says they are just friends. honestly i dont really trust or believe her when it comes to this topic.

From a girl's perspective, is this bullshit?

I alreayd told her if he tries anything im going to kick his ass.

 

just make her tell you all about it later, while naked

Kick HIS ass, you are a teen aren't you

 

I will but if any guy even touches her in anyway and she goes along with it...i will lose all respect for her..i wouldnt even wanto touch her. Why would she wanto go to the movies with another guy? why not go with me? she tells me shes not a "hoe".

If i find out anything happens no joke i will beat the dudes ass...then i will forget her in like 3 seconds.

 

sounds like a shitty relationship, no fucking clue what your deal is

 

if it really bothers you, go to the theaters with one of your friends, who just so happens to be a girl. or you could confront the guy she went with on your own, and just scare the shit out of him.

 

All my friends have been guys forever. My best friend for over two years is my current boyfriend. My ex-husband was always jealous of it, but what was I supposed to do, have no friends? Girls don't like me as a general rule. So when I went out, it was usually with a guy. My boyfriend is awesome, he knows nothing would go on. I'm way too devoted and in love with him to screw up by messing around on him.

If she loves and cares about you, then you have nothing to worry about. If she betrays you, then there's probably not anything strong enough there to begin with.

 

Underplay,

They are FRIENDS. Let your girlfriend hang out with her FRIENDS. Everyone is entitled to have friends of the opposite sex. I have always gone to the movies with friends of the opposite sex, gone to dinners with them, had coffees with them, and had them sleep over at my place. Some single, others attached. No big deal though, since we're FRIENDS.

Have a little faith in her. If she actually DOES cheat on you, then she isn't for you. BUT, do NOT resort to violence under any circumstances. Don't go after the guy to kick his ass. No, that is very cheap. Just break up with her and cry about it for a while. That beats beating somebody.

Good luck!

 

Actually, it sounds very much like you are.

Grab a pair and stop being insecure. You're probably more likely to lose her from this kind of over reaction than from her cheating on you.

Like aphrodite, all my friends are guys. If my boyfriend (now husband) had ever acted with that much paranoid machismo I would have dumped him like a hot potato.

 

sounds fishy, i say kick his ass. rofl

 

If you are in a relationship you can either come from Fear or Love. Right now you are in fear so we are also all mirrors. What we fear we also create. So the more you freak out over this the more energy you put round it happening.
No one owns anyone and we are all free to have friends.
So instead go to a show with one of your friends of the oppsite sex.
It will keep your mind off your fears.
Peace The Wiz

 

don't worry about it. if she wants to go to see a movie with a guy then you have no choice but to let her no matter what your feelings are. if it is more than a friendship then it will come to light eventually, if it is just a friendship all you achieve by jealousy is to destroy your own relationship.
it is hard not to be jealous, especially if it is a friend who she keeps secret from you or an aspect of her that she is adamant not to share with you. but take it from one who has walked down that path before - jealous actions don't solve anything.

 

well some stuff happened and alot of feelings came out but it was for the good i guess this is a stage in every relationship but its passed now and i can trust her, trust doesnt come easy with me thats why.

 

thanks for your input guys

 

If this broad means anything to you, demand that she not go to the movies with him. Last time that happened to me, I followed them to the theatre without them knowing. I sat back about 10 rows. Saw her head disappear, saw red and beat the fuck out of him on his way out. I threw her shit in the dumpster and kicked her ass out of my house. Filthy slut. If she says he's gay, she's fucking him. If he won't come over to your house and hang out with both of you, fucking kill him or leave her in the dust. There is no excuse for this type of behavior in a committed relationship unless you're into swingin' or free love.

Women are mean and cruel. They will lie cheat and steal and still look you in the face and tell you that they love you.

I've found a good one. She doesn't like being anywhere without me. Even when we're arguing. She gave a guy a ride home from work one time, I told her it was unacceptable and she never even talked to him again. It's just a line that you don't cross when you're supposedly committed to someone else.

Then again, if I were your age, I wouldn't get into any sort of relationship at all. Take it from me, the person who wanted to get married right after graduation, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND FUCK AS MANY BROADS AS YOU CAN BEFORE SETTLING DOWN. I didn't do that and now I wish that things would have been different. I'm extremely happy in my marriage, but to be able to go back and conquer all kinds of crazy broad pussy, fuck 8 hookers at once and not have to answer to anyone, would be a great treat. But as I said, I'm happy now so I'd like to stay that way.

Best of luck to you and beat that fucker's ass and kick that bitch the fuck out of your life. Just on principal.

 

Sad but true.

Chics who don't have any girl friends are in my experience attention whores - usually with insecurity - they just love to have other guys to annoy the shit out of you with - next time you're in an argument together you can be sure that she'll bring up something one of her "friends" said.

No matter who you are or how gorgeous you can still have friends of the same sex - "girls don't like me" is such a load of bs - I mean there's like 6 bazillion chics out there - you must really be smokin the crack pipe if you can't find ONE who thinks you're ok to hang with.

 

OK, I can understand you are bitter and angry, but promoting violence, sexism, and ageism, is NOT IN ANY WAY how to deal with such situations. You didn't get to "conquer all kinds of crazy broad pussy", you didn't get to "fuck 8 hookers at once and not have to answer to anyone", GET OVER IT. Maybe you never got to do any of those things because you weren't worthy of having that many women to begin with? I'm sorry man, but where's love in it?? Where's the admiration, appreciation, RESPECT, and HONOUR that come with being with a woman? If you ask me, you just fuckin' got pissed off at the girl because you were downright possessive, obsessive, and controlling over her. Don't just blame her for what happened. Recognize the flaws you made, too.

So you found a girl whom you can have total control over. How nice. I feel rather bad for her, but if she's happy, then whatever. That, however, is your own situation, and I think that anyone thick enough to follow your advice will inevitably turn into a violent, possessive, obsessive, controlling schmuck, if not already. Do you have female friends? Well, maybe not... But I'm curious. If you DO have female friends, then how about you let your wife beat the shit out of their asses for hanging out with you and kick you the bloody fuck out of her life? Makes it fair, doesn't it?

Sarcastic joke aside, violence is NOT the answer here. Nor is treating women with such disrespect one. You never got as many "pussies" as you'd wanted... Figures.

 

That is a totally flawed analogy. There is NOTHING WRONG with having more friends of the opposite sex than the same sex. It in itself would NOT tell you anything about a girl being an "attention whore", or "insecure". If you're annoyed by their being friends with other guys, then YOU are the one with heavy duty insecurity. Plus, who's to say these girls do NOT have friends of the same sex, or NOT wish to make friends of the same sex? Their having friends of the opposite sex has nothing to do with anyone's appearance but the compatibility in their personalities, just like MY own having more female close friends than male counterparts has nothing to do with our appearance but our being compatible personality-wise.

The bottom-line: NOT ALL girls who hang out with their guy friends would potentially cheat on their partners with their guy friends. For that matter, I'd say those who do are actually in the minority.

 

Ok, no. I have female friends, don't get me wrong. I just find that guys make better friends. They don't backstab you, spread your secrets, etc. I have met three women in my life that haven't backstabbed me, and all three of them I consider good friends. And don't give me the whole "He's only your friend because he wants to fuck you" shit -- I have male friends I've been friends with forever who have no intention of pursuing a sexual relationship with me. If anything, I've had more female "friends" who turn out to be lesbians!

*shrug* I guess you're welcome to your own opinions. I'll also have you knwo that the three women I speak of, the three women who I trust and have never backstabbed me are also women with men as their best friends. We DO exist. It IS possible to have an opposite sex friend who is just that -- a friend!

 

LMAO! Dude read what I wrote - I stated that chics who don't have ANY chic friends were in my experience - not more or less. You call yourself "thinker" , try doing some of that before u post .

 

Uh what ? I said chics who do not have ANY female friends , who are INCAPABLE of forming chic friendships ? Holy shit ,is the collective literacy levels on these boards truly so low that you can't read what's written without blowing it out of proportion ?

I don't believe that "only friends because he wants to fuck you" either , I've also had chic friends , but here's the thing , if the friend was smoking hot then yeh I'd wanna bone her. I tend to date smoking hot chics (mostly sight impaired natch) so you see the issue here. Frankly I'm little more than bored with the 50 or so phone numbers she gets a night anymore - but still she's got enough respect for me not to feed me some bullshit line "he's just a friend". BTW she does have one female friend in this town - yeh a lesbo - y'see ? Can't wait until we find her some proper chic friends but she works her ass off so it's tough for her to maintain relationships when she has to do an equal amount of work.