I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years. She has been on the pill for the last 2. We usually use condoms when we have sex just for extra protection. I hate using them but she insists that we do. I never come inside of her regardless of whether or not im wearing a condom. Since she is on the pill would it be safe to have sex with no condom as long as I don't come inside her? What are the chances of her getting pregnant like this?
I got pregnant on the pill. Wrap it up, man. Unless you're willing to deal with the consequences of having a baby.
slim to none. slim to none even if you do come inside her. if shes on the pill and takes it everyday at the same time then shes not ovulating. if shes not ovulating then she doesnt produce an egg. if she doesnt produce an egg then theres pretty much no chance of pregnancy. (i say pretty much cuz theres like a 0.1 chance.)
Just use a condom. It really isn't that big of a deal is it? Is it really worth the risk? When you "pull out" you still leave cum in her, it is called precum. Have sex with a condom. She is obviously worried about getting pregnant and wants to have sex with a condom. Respect her wishes and just be happy she wants to have sex with you in the first place. Never take it for granted.
Sex is so much better without one though. Not just physically buy psychologically too. Its like night and day.
My ex-husband wouldn't wear one, and I refused to let him cum inside me. The one time he did.... well, let's just say we didn't have sex for three months. My current boyfriend just wouldn't have sex without the condom. The chance of getting pregnant with condoms + pill is lik 99%. WIth just the pill, it's less. Even if it's 97%, do you really want to risk being that extra 3%? Your (AND your girlfriend's) choice on this one.
So those of you who are saying use a condom...are you saying having sex with no condom and not coming inside her is pretty much the same as having sex with no condom and coming insider her?
People actually use condoms? On the rare occasions when I did try to use one, it never made it all the way through sex. I didn't tear it off: my lovers did. I never had a serious STD, never got anyone pregnant. What can I say? God takes care of fools and little children. A few years ago, I got to wondering about my sperm count, and had it checked. I was fertile. Boy, was I fertile. I just don't know. Every woman I've ever been with was on some form of birth control or another. Every sort, come to think of it: pills, hormonal implants, IUD's, diaphragms with spermicide, tied tubes... have I left anything out? But, no condoms. I've never been that paranoid about it.
Say I screw up my pills, the order, forget a day something like that.. Well, need a backup then, just to be safe. Found a long time ago that nonoxynol 9 while being a very effective spermicide...The gel form is like trying to screw through peanutbutter...& It gave us both irritation. We hate condoms too, & have both been tested for std's. Found protectaid sponges, you can find decent deals for them online...Here's some info: http://www.pslgroup.com/dg/6226.htm It is important that she inserts them correctly as package instructions direct. Happy coitus!
MOST BC pills are over 99% effective...when taken at the same time every day. But that is no guarantee...like Moonflower stated, she got pregnant while on the pill...it happens. Your girlfriend is taking precautions that girls should. Good for her...she's looking out for your ass...AND hers.
I exist although my mom was on the Pill AND they used condoms. There is always a chance, so be extra careful either way. Oh yeah, and RESPECT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!
