ughhh....Virgin

at 19 I have not had sex with a woman, is this strange, it seems everyone my age is on a laser locked quest for vagina, my ambitions lay elsewhere for the moment, I am looking for 1 girl to spend the rest of my life with. Am I alone in my quest or are all the other 19 year olds looking for booty and Im just odd.

 

Lay off the weed. It lowers some people's sex drive.

Other than that, do what you wanna do, be happy.

 

I'd rather a relationship then a lay but everyone will look for what they want.

 

Try as many chicks as u can man, u gota have sme pussy 4 da rest of ur life so u mite as well choose th best pussy eh?

 

20 year old virgin here, you don't at all need it. For the most part it only leads to frustration and consequences. Do what you please, is the only thing I could tell you.

 

Yeah exactly, if you wanna get laid, go out and try and get laid but dont freak about it, i know alot of 19 year old virgins.

 

Cool, im not freaking on it im just curious, glad im not alone here thanks for the messages. Seems though that im the only one in the group I hang out with that isnt in some non stop quest for pussy. thanks for the reply's!

-AU

 

That's not strange, that's beautiful.

 

i think alot of people emphazies way to much on gettin laid. for some people, thats what they want, and it makes them feel good about themselves. im 19 and still a virgin, and i dont really care. i would much rather have a girl i could just do all the innocent stuff with first, like cuddling and kissing then just get laid right off the bat. im sure sex is one of the most wonderful things, but it will come in time.

 

Thats very stange for a 19 year old.

 

"Innocent stuff"

My friend, sex is not the work of the devil.

 

Just because most guys get obsessed about getting laid doesn't mean it's strange if someone chooses to wait. Everybody's different.

 

Its called instinct, not obsession.

 

How about lose your virginity, making a baby with a husband or wife. There is nothing more special than that.

 

i didnt mean to imply that it was...im just saying that there is more that im lookin for then sex

 

When I was in Portugal this summer, there was a dog that, at night would run to the next village to have sex with this pair of female dogs, every night, you couldnt stop him, if you locked him inside the house he would just bark and make noise until you let him out to get his swerve on.

THAT is instinct, I would like to think that humans are just slightly more advanced than the dog and although the urge is there we have the ability to make a rational decision.

1- Have some lustfilled animal like sex with someone who likely will not ever have any role in your life or

2- Wait to find a partner who will stick it out with you and then choose to create life with them.

Ive got nothing against those who fall into category #1, I just think that their actions are clouding their ability to be able to experiance #2. It must be hard to find your soulmate when your in a nonstop quest to get y our dick sticky. These are just my opinions from observations here in a big metropolis in southern ontario.

Ohh yeah

P.S. - Kozmic Blue thanks for your reply's, your support means a lot.
P.P.S - Rhasta Penguin keep on keepin on

 

1- Have some lustfilled animal like sex with someone who likely will not ever have any role in your life or

I think at 19 I would have fit in that category and still do.

All I have to say is dont waste the young years of your life chasing girls because you want to marry them. You know shit all about life, your self let alone taking responsability for someone elses life and marrying or being with them for ever.

 

hey dont worry about what others are doing. You are saving yourself and for that right person and honestly that is such a wonderful thing cuz your not being exposed to stds,one night stands etc. since your ambitions lay else where this means that you can concentrate on alot more things and try to get through life. Once you have sex for the first time that is all your going to want for a long while. my fiance waited until he was 21 to have sex and he did so much with his life. he stilll

 

Humans like to think alot of things.

 

very true. and, there are plenty of older virgins out there, they just arent as vocal as the sluts. stivk to your principles, and never fret over what you have "missed out on". you can be plenty happy without sex. wait for that one girl. look, i've been with plent of ladies, i'm NOT a virgin. but i'm very drunk right now, and when im drunk im HONEST and wise. just keep healthy, masterbate, and dont worry about the women