im guessing there are plentyyy of places for me to put this but i decided to put it here.. recently a friend and i had a few drinks and decided we would have sex.. he was having trouble keeping it up and we kept doing various things to keep him up.. eg hand jobs oral sex (to both) etc.. finally when he got it up and we got goin it lasted like a minute.. afterwards he sed even when he wasnt hard he felt like he was gonna cum.. i heard that thats what happens when u do ecstasy, but is it possible the reason 4 these problems were the alcohol, or was he just bull shitting when he sed it had never happened b4.. has this happened to any1 b4, let me no please
dayzee, explicit sex questions really are well answered in the Love and Sex forum. Best to put these questions here. (moved from Women's Issues Forum, as this is more sex, than really a "woman's issue.")
It happens to me sometimes when I have new sex with girls I haven't had sex with before. But After few times I get so fucking hard and never loose my erection for so FUCKING long. but I mean, FUCKINNNNNNNNNNG LONG!!! Give him sometimes and chances.
ecstasy definitely *does NOT* cause you to ejaculate prematurely. i usually last for about 15 minutes, and i went for about 2 hours (with a couple short breaks) when i took MDMA (i think it was a pure pill, or so ecstasydata.org said; it was the blue "waves" pill). i think it's a common symptom of MDMA to not even be able to reach orgasm, muchless have it early. on the other hand, alcohol does the opposite to me. plus being nervous or upset or bothered in anyway makes it end pretty quick. if he drank, it could be that alone, or being nervous from going into a new experience (new person) in that state of mind and questioning whether or not he should, or maybe he just doesn't last long anyway. chances are if you guys weren't drunk and were more comfortable and close with each other, he'd have lasted a lot longer.
Ecstacy + alcohol can be a fatal combination. (alcohol dehydrates you, MDMA dehydrates you a lot. I had a brush with near-death due to dehydration on X myself once, if I had been drinking there's no way I would have made it)
