I hope youÕre doing great. Is there any chance I could ask you for some quick comments for a short article I'm writing? HereÕs the gist of the article: Most guys have encountered a woman or two in their lives who was definitely on the heavy side, but for some strange mixture of reasons, it didn't stop her from being very sexually attractive--even hot. For some reason, when you look at this particular woman, you don't predominantly "see" a heavy chick in your mind's eye. You only see a sexy chick or a woman you'd like to date. The question is, Why? What specifically was it about this particular woman you're thinking of--- looks-wise, physically, personality-wise, whatever---that gave her "it"? What was different about her, or how did she create this aura? I'd ideally like to describe something more specific than "a great personality" or "sense of humor" or "she was hot in bed." In fact, in the woman I'm talking about is attractive to you before anything sexual occurs. I'd really appreciate any good insights here! Just a couple sentences would be plenty. Thanks very much, kurius ps --- Here's a little more detail in case useful at all. I've known a few women like this, and they were mysteries in that other women who had the same body types were just as objectively good looking, or just as overall "confident", but these few had some mysterious magical recipe that made them just blow the others away. Below are some factors the women I've known had in common. Please feel free to comment on any of these thoughts. They all dressed really, really well They had top-shelf lingerie and wore it with --black lace bra under the white shirt, etc Long hair Great skin Nice hands/toenails---they take care of the small details Fantastic smile, and they smile very often They know how to flirt--a bit aggressively but not desperately They're athletic--they play tennis, work out, etc. Voice??? Not with the 2 women I knew, but maybe it's a factor for others. BTW, Just to clarity, we're not talking about huge women who appeal to guys with "BBW" fetishes, but rather a woman who is maybe 15-20 pounds overweight. Somehow, she has qualities that completely override any negatives of her extra weight. Guys who don't usually like heavier women would also go for these women.
