When we have arausal moments, my bf's legs start shaking from the excitmant (mostly felt when i'm doing him an oral). The fact is that he doesn't like it since he loses the control over his legs but I on the other hand consider it very sexy and it makes me go even more crazy about him.... So when it starts he tends to block it as much as he can and it makes him not totally relaxed for other stuff (when we make love it's not that much of the occupation of his mind but oral is what causes the troubles)....I already told him that i don't mind it actually even love it, but he still tends to stop it and he's not relaxed 100%, so what can i do to make him let go and still enjoy his body reactions as a normal thing of arausal?! I really enjoy his physical reactions and i don't wonna stop feeling them as he tends to stop them....and definitly i wanna help him relax more! Can anybody tell me what to do?! Thank you in advance!
Every man I've ever blown shakes. I think it's kinda natural. I once had a man shaking so badly that his body was convulsing and he passed out. It was insane. I thought I killed him! I shake when I get off, too. But I like it.
Oh yeah it's normal....but my guy doesn't like to not to have a control....and my reaction on pleasure is losing sense in my legs....they just go numb, i don't shake....but it feels so good! ....but when a guys does it it's so sexy, isn't it? makes you go insane! I don't know anyone who doesn't like it!
So why does he not like NOT having control over his legs? I mean, arousal and orgasm are something pretty much UNcontrollable, and THAT ESSENTIALLY is the beauty of it...is how I've always viewed the whole thing as. *shrug*
i LOVE IT! omg. shaking legs are a sign of completely being in control of your lovers pleasure and excitement, even for just that long. its their bodies way of telling you "fuck... i want you so bad baby! i'm so into you right now i can't even hold still!" and thats just.... incredible. the other thing i love like mad is when his thigh muscles tense up and you can see it. wow. maybe your man has a problem with letting you be in complete control? thats just one idea.
I totally agree! it's the best feeling ever....when you know he wants you that much, and specially if that someone (in my case) is the man i wonna spend my life with....it couldn't get any better! it's posible that he likes to keep some control with him, but i didn't notice that he doesn't enjoy when i take the iniciative
hahaha i can imagine how u felt, i was just thinking about it and i wouldn't know what to do, it would freak me out....almost killing him haha....way to go girl
guys, does anybody have a same thing? shaking in pleasure and not liking it? if so, i would really wish to know why....
I'm a guy but, like I said before, I tend to think shaking is kind of a given. One thing, though... From the sounds of it, I think you're definitely doing something RIGHT, if he's responding in that way. I guess it's just one of those things where he just needs to get used to? *shrug*
When my wife sucks me off I completely lose control of my body. My hips and back spasm and I feel like I am going to throw my back out from it every time. In alot of ways I feel getting oral is more submissive for me getting it than her giving it. She is the one totaly in control. All I can do is lie back and take it. She is the one in command.
Hey. everybody slow down! He doesn't like to shake because he thinks it makes him less 'manly.' Immaturity, but she can't tell him that or he might walk. Tell 'im about the excitement it causes you, ask him please to let the shakes continue, and 'loose ' a bit of control yourself. As for loosening him up when he gets too rigid try pinching his nipples - drive him crazy and take him by surprise at the same time. Last hope: tell him you like the manly way he shakes, you read somewhere that only the best lovers can completely loose themselves in the shakes. Nothing wrong witrh a couple little white ones 'til he grows up!
It always turned me on so much when my other half's legs would shake from cumming as I went down on her. Tell him how much you love it, not just in the moment but whisper it in his ear when you're out together, he'll grow to realise that its ok, that its better than ok because its something you love about him.
